I do not get the hype behind college years being the best years of a guy's life

[sambwoy]

You make it sound like accountability, responsibility is a masculine thing, therefore, women have the luxury of not taking responsibility, accountability, and that being independent is a masculine thing, I never understood that, does it say in the Bible or what?

Many women's behaviour I've encountered in the past I get the feeling contradict the moral messages that are thrown on men about responsibility etc., when these women have in fact acted/act like men. In my experience, they publicly announced about who they shagged, and they leer...all the stereotypical things men are accused of and shamed for in public/pop culture.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

Many women's behaviour I've encountered in the past I get the feeling contradict the moral messages that are thrown on men about responsibility etc., when these women have in fact acted/act like men. In my experience, they publicly announced about who they shagged, and they leer...all the stereotypical things men are accused of and shamed for in public/pop culture.

just brining that up because it's like as if life, society, culture, has all of these rules, standards, expectations as to what separates boys from men, but never what separates girls from women, you never hear people say to girls "woman up, be a woman", just like they always say to us guys "man up, be a man", it's like all a girl, or woman, just has to have a vagina in order to be called a woman, but for a man, having a penis alone is not enough