"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I do believe I've just had an epiphany

Yogibear

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ok, so after lurking here for a few short months and reading the DJ bible (I'm about half through now) i have figured out all of my problems

I've been flirting with/ kinoing a lot of girls at school, and one day i got it in my head that i had a lil crush on one of them. Only after reading through "Weapons of Mass Seduction" by Señor Fingers did i realize that i had no chance with this chick. I had those AFC thoughts in the back of my mind- does she like me? oh no! what if she doesnt? Should i ask her out now? etc

it has come to my attention that those thoughts have subconsciously communicated to her that i lacked confidence, and that she didnt really respect me.

I could not be happier. I am so glad that i figured this out and that the change has to happen within

anyway, I'm just venting here and feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders for seeing the light
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I'm in the Mood

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So just bvtch slap those thoughts and ask her out!
 

eaglez1177

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Nice to see that you're learning!
 
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