"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"i didnt think it would be you"

fanren

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this might seem like a silly paranoia analysis but heres the deal:

some of the girls ive been with would say something along the lines of "i didnt think it would be you" or "whod have thought youd be my boyfriend"

its just kind of strange when you hear it more than once. so how am i suppsoe to take it? maybe im not good enough in english?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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fanren

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that works
but my question was more like what they mean when they say that
 

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thats good

it means they mis judged you.

they are suprised..

well it depends what they say it on.. try to post a lil more convo
 

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HA, I love this line.

A gew months ago I was at a girl friends house & she has her friend there as well. Earlier in the night she was saying how she only goes for black guys. When everyone went to sleep that night, guess who she was sleeping with... ?

Little white me :)
 
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