You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
honestly its never like thatJohnnyventana said:
No, it is the same thing. I'd you are anything close to a sexual being, which you should be, you want to f- anything. "would f"@&k" means attraction at the least on the subcoucious level.ARrocket said:
Doesnt wanna be your friend cause there is something wrong with you and you want to f@&$k her. Anyway, they wanna be friends with everybody as well as he is non- creepy and gives her attention. It's one of the types of friendzone, yet that one is a sure dead end. Gotta defferentiate between the types. Sometimes it is best to actually friend a woman if you feel like she is not interested at all. Just don't make a move on her at all. The chances are she will kill any attraction you ever had for her anyway and from there you have a low chance of getting with her, but it is better than 0.Johnnyventana said:
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Alex DeLarge said:
What if you ALWAYS flirted with her and were never overly close as friends she's just not into you? Is that the "uglyzone"?Igetit! said:
You're telling me that if you take one of your attractive female friends, have a couple drinks with her, perhaps you're pretty horny that night, and she starts making moves on YOU, you won't have sex with her? Doubtful.PapiChulo said:
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Wrong. They don't wanna f$&@k you because you aren't hot to begin with. Seldom there is a thing like you ve described above. There are different types of friend zones, ranging from where you are actually friends to where this status is on hold- call it the "ugly zone " or whatever.irocknike23 said:
That's not the point. You are still pursuing passively, stringing along potential hookups, etc. And about giving a damn, I think everybody does care a little bit, otherwise why would you stay in touch. It is a tricky territory, sir.ARrocket said:
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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