"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I started this year in the hole financially. I'm a graphic artist and editor and I don't make big coin. I'm a check to check sorta guy. My last 3 graphic design/ video production business failed for various reason, the last with partnership that ended badly (I spoke on that before). I decided to finally say, screw partnerships. I'll do joint ventures or have employees and freelancers, but no parnters.

I began the year at about 8 grand in the hole on back debts and 30k in debt total. No I didn't by some miracle pull off the dream client and pay off every bill. But, over the last 6 months I have paid off all of my back debts. Even after losing a lot of my possessions in a fire, I finally as of today earned enough to cover the hole. I have 4 pair of pants and 6 shirts, five of those being work shirts.

I know own my own business with about a dozen repeat clients and I'm getting ready to hire 1 part time employee and two freelancers.

I just landed a contract with a major automotive firm to produce an in house video and this could lead to more corporate and manufacturing work.

I've had no life for months. But I finally achieved one of my goals for the year. In a couple of months I can pull my head up and start to think about women again.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Been going on ten months, no life, no time or money for women, trying to get life going. Hope I can get it going too. Good job. Anyone who says money is not important for your health, happiness, and love life is a fucvking fool.
 

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A great milestone!

I used to be in the same kind of business. It's very tough & competitive. This is a very significant step for you. Good work!
 

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Warrior74 said:
I started this year in the hole financially. I'm a graphic artist and editor and I don't make big coin. I'm a check to check sorta guy. My last 3 graphic design/ video production business failed for various reason, the last with partnership that ended badly (I spoke on that before). I decided to finally say, screw partnerships. I'll do joint ventures or have employees and freelancers, but no parnters.

I began the year at about 8 grand in the hole on back debts and 30k in debt total. No I didn't by some miracle pull off the dream client and pay off every bill. But, over the last 6 months I have paid off all of my back debts. Even after losing a lot of my possessions in a fire, I finally as of today earned enough to cover the hole. I have 4 pair of pants and 6 shirts, five of those being work shirts.

I know own my own business with about a dozen repeat clients and I'm getting ready to hire 1 part time employee and two freelancers.

I just landed a contract with a major automotive firm to produce an in house video and this could lead to more corporate and manufacturing work.

I've had no life for months. But I finally achieved one of my goals for the year. In a couple of months I can pull my head up and start to think about women again.
I hope you were not drunk while writing ths sh!t cause I am drank ready to head out while reading it. Great J.O.B anyhow.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Cheers to you Warrior!

You indeed, live up to your username. It's great to hear good stories like this, men rising up to challenge...and kicking ass.

My only advise, is to remember what got you where you are today. Don't get soft. Keep kicking ass like the warrior you are.
 

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Good job! Yes, without enouh money I don't know how some people can still go out and mack. I was out of the game for about a year cause I didn't have enough money to have really be comfortable enough to where I could spend a portion of my time strictly on women. Keep it up.
 

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Something I'm not understanding...
In your journal on June 29th you said that at the end of July you will start your debt snowball. I know what a debt snowball is, but aren't you saying that all your debts are now paid off? Just rying to clarify as I'm trying to do the same in my life.
 

Warrior74

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amoka said:
I hope you were not drunk while writing ths sh!t cause I am drank ready to head out while reading it. Great J.O.B anyhow.
LOL. I did dash it off in a few seconds. Busy weekend and a house full of kids. Time to get in some work.

Like the old saying goes, No romance without finance. That being said, an old FB is sniffing back around. I guess I'll play with her in the meantime while I continue my work. Time to go shopping and get some new clothes this week!

Atom Smasher said:
Something I'm not understanding...
In your journal on June 29th you said that at the end of July you will start your debt snowball. I know what a debt snowball is, but aren't you saying that all your debts are now paid off? Just rying to clarify as I'm trying to do the same in my life.
I'm still working on my debt snowball. I'm fan of Dave Ramsey (http://www.daveramsey.com/). And I was doing it ass backwards.

His debt snowball consist of the following.

1. get caught up on all outstanding (past due) debts first.
2. save $1000 for an emergency fund (less if you are on a lower income such as myself, $500 in my case).
3. Make a zero sum budget, every penny accounted for and applied somewhere.
4. All extra money in your budget goes onto you lowest debt.
5. Pay off the lowest debt first.
6. Take the extra budget money + the cost of the lowest debt and apply it to the next lowest debt.
7. Continue until all debts are paid.

I started at step 3 -5. Until the fire, as I was getting by...so I had to step back to step one and do it right.

Now I'm back up to step 4 with a solid foundation behind me. In a couple of months I should have all of my debts except for my car and college loans sorted. Another 2 years on the car loan will sort that out and then a few years on the college loans if everything goes to plan and I'll be debt free.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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While Dave ramsey was never applicable to my life, I still believe in his general message. Reading his book spawned interest in other facets of the financial world.

Anyway, glad to hear your getting some good bounces in life. you got your head in the right spot so it was only a matter of time. capitalize on these chances and enjoy the fruits of your labor! best of luck!
 

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Good to hear this. I'm considering taking the leap and going into business for myself, so hearing about this sort of progress is always a good motivator.
 

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Salute to you WARRIOR!

In a world where many guys just talk shyt------you put your plan into ACTION. Though, no one is perfect, and we all have setbacks (some setbacks MORE major than others...), YOU are one of guys living by a principle that makes men become BETTER MEN.

...and that principle is----Even if the goal you're trying to accomplish is hard------DO IT HARD.


RESPECT.


VU
 

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Warrior, you are a Great American.

Instead of putting your tail between your legs and blaming the government, the economy, and everything except YOURSELF, you have taken the hard road that so many spend their entire lives dodging.

Keep fighting that good fight, and know that YOU ARE NOT ALONE.
 

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great job man. now let's go get some strippers and drinks


j/k



kinda.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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from what i've seen, 80% of partnerships end badly. people like it because they team up with friends, or it's just nice to have someone be there with you through the uncertain start-up period...

but later on you'll start to disagree on things. one person is doing more work than the other, one goes on holiday too much etc. it's a nightmare

i run a marketing agency and i made a conscious decision not to have a partnership. i only use freelance designers as well
 

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What I see here is that you put YOURSELF first, rather than females. That's pretty darn cool to see. Kudos brother.
 

Darles Chickens

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Nice one...got any examples of your work? I'm a fan of graphic design and design in general.

Once again well done.
 

Don Israel

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Seems like you made it, despite very though odds, congrats!

BTW how many hours do you work per week for your business?

I wish to start my graphic arts biz as well, i'd like to have a preview of things to come...although i am aware that situations and schedules do differ from person to person based on their needs and goals.
 

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Soon you will call into his TV show and we will hear you yell..... I AM DEBT FREE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Congrats!

Powerlifter
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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