"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I did it!

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donjuanapprentice01

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Yes folks, I did it... I asked out a perfect 10 for the first time in my life!

My old hairstylist retired last month, so today I used a new one, who is absolutely gorgeous, a perfect 10 everywhere! I used to see her all the time, but I was always intimidated. But, conversation was so easy, because she is an avid golf enthusiast like I am. Wicked personality too! And did an amazing job with my hair to boot.

So, after I payed, I asked her to go out for coffee... I wasn't nervous at all, because we had a good convo going. She said she didn't know when she had time, because her father was sick, and was busy with other things (she owns the salon) but she said she was very interested in going golfing. However, I didn't get a number, so I don't know. Just said we would discuss it next time I get my hair done.

But that's not important. What is is that this rAFC had the guts to ask out an HB10, for the first time in my life. I'm hoping there is a chance here, but I dunno... nevertheless I feel pretty damn proud of myself.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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milrenkb

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Its always nice to see someone else succeed. However I'd like to remind you to stop being so excited. You didn't get the point where you could ask out a perfect 10 by being the one that danced everytime you got into the end zone. Instead you pulled a Barry Sanders by handing the Ref the ball and knowing that eventually you'd be back for another score. Remember, act like you've been there before and everything else will fall into place. With that said I wish you nothing but the best.
 
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