"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I did it again....I officially hate the game.

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Alright...a little venting that I need right now. I know what to do in this boy meets girl world, and I would like to say that I am fairly good at it. Its those times that you meet one you really like, and are in a situation where you have to see them on a regular basis (like you work together at a bar) that I always F up. I had super onenitis over this one, and my anxiety and AFC took over. It always seems more natural to be AFC, then to game it. ANd now she wont talk to me, and I wake up everymorning reminding myself that I am a dumb F. And I miss her. It was wierd...I was barely sexualy attracted to her. She was just one of those girls that when you are around you are instantly happy. I have banged out a few 8s or maybe a 9 since...but would give that back if I could have controlled myself with her. Got a new bar job because of it.

Hammer away and let me have it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You're still an AFC at heart. You say that it's more "natural" to revert to your AFC tendencies. This indicates that you haven't internalized Game principles. You can't just put on a facade; that might get you in the door with some broads but your AFC tendencies will come raging back.
Once you've taken the Red Pill, there's no going back. It's one thing to understand Game on an intellectual level, but it takes longer to make it a part of who you are.
 
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gamehater said:
Alright...a little venting that I need right now. I know what to do in this boy meets girl world, and I would like to say that I am fairly good at it. Its those times that you meet one you really like, and are in a situation where you have to see them on a regular basis (like you work together at a bar) that I always F up. I had super onenitis over this one, and my anxiety and AFC took over. It always seems more natural to be AFC, then to game it. ANd now she wont talk to me, and I wake up everymorning reminding myself that I am a dumb F. And I miss her. It was wierd...I was barely sexualy attracted to her. She was just one of those girls that when you are around you are instantly happy. I have banged out a few 8s or maybe a 9 since...but would give that back if I could have controlled myself with her. Got a new bar job because of it.

Hammer away and let me have it.
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You are depressed and lonely.
 
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All I can say is that we all have been there at one point or another....and it sucks! Just got to move on....
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Young man,

sort of a cliche, but it's a chessic wisdom so I'll repeat:

if you don't believe in yourself, who will believe in you?

Women ... Don't get frustrated with them. The most chick swarmed episodes of my life have been during periods when I actually didn't care about them,

not because I thought being indifferent would make them want me,

but because I was too busy doing shít for my own personal development. ( Pulled a Backbreaker here, but guy has a point.)

Focus on the real issues in life.

Remember your plans, heroes, future vision. Even people like Mystery who make a living out of gaming women, isn't driven by women if you look closely.

Find your passion, women will come along.
 
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