"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I did good!

theNEWDJ

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so i made a pretty good don juan move the other night.. I was at this concert and and these two super hot chicks like hb9.5 were like let me get ahead of u and i was like nah but then i was like... u wanna get up real close to the stage? and ofcourse they did so I just took the one chick by the hand and pushed my was through to the front, somehow i got us through this packed crowd to the very front, it was awesome and they loved me for it, my buddy took the one and i took the super hot blonde and she was all over me like grinding and kissing me so ot was a good move - got all her info...

anyway i couldnt have done that at all with out this site soo thanks for all the info! Im glad i asserted myself and took charge and made a great night out of it
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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wavejams007

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You have just graduated up a level in DJism.
 

Patrick124

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what concert? where u from?
I was at OAR friday night. maybe u were there?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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toddC

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congrats to you man, that is a great move you pulled.
 
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