"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I Did Everything Right, But Didn't Get a 2nd Date

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Had a date this weekend. In order to be mysterious like women say they like, I told her that I'd meet her in a dark alley behind the restaurant we were going to. Since picking her up or meeting her at the actual restaurant would be so predictable and boring, and women hate boring.

And to be spontaneous (which is something else women say they like), I told her I'd meet her anytime between 8-9pm and for her just to wait in the alley until I got there.

Sometime between 8-9pm I snuck up behind her in the alley and scared the bejebus out of her, since I heard women also like an unpredictable guy. When she started crying I realized that I had established my alpha-male status, which women also love.

To remain mysterious, during our meal I was vague and distant to the questions she was asking to get to know me better. And when the check came I stiffed her with it and made her pay the whole thing since I heard women don't like to feel like the guy is paying her way.

I then drove her to the nearest bus stop so she could catch the last bus home, but as she was leaving she said she didn't think a 2nd date would be a good idea.

What happened?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by Thugo
Had a date this weekend. In order to be mysterious like women say they like, I told her that I'd meet her in a dark alley behind the restaurant we were going to. Since picking her up or meeting her at the actual restaurant would be so predictable and boring, and women hate boring.

And to be spontaneous (which is something else women say they like), I told her I'd meet her anytime between 8-9pm and for her just to wait in the alley until I got there.

Sometime between 8-9pm I snuck up behind her in the alley and scared the bejebus out of her, since I heard women also like an unpredictable guy. When she started crying I realized that I had established my alpha-male status, which women also love.

To remain mysterious, during our meal I was vague and distant to the questions she was asking to get to know me better. And when the check came I stiffed her with it and made her pay the whole thing since I heard women don't like to feel like the guy is paying her way.

I then drove her to the nearest bus stop so she could catch the last bus home, but as she was leaving she said she didn't think a 2nd date would be a good idea.

What happened?
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You did everything A-OK, except that there existed no physical chemisrty. If there is powerful physical chemistry, a woman will fukk you on the first date, even if you take her on a tour of the local sewage plant.
 
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:eek:


:D


:crackup:


Dude, I almost pissed my pants reading that.
 
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So you guys think there's any hope here? Should I call her or email her and explain why I acted like that? I'm not really a wierdo just took this don juan stuff too far.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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...LoL!! Let's backtrack, shall we? You told a girl to meet you in an alley (where she could possibly be mugged by a stranger), give her a vague time (so she has to fend for herself for an hour outside ALONE in the cold), scare the crap out of her and made her cry (she was probably fearing that it WAS somebody coming to mug her), and then ponder why she doesn't want a second date with you?!? Duuuuude... are you sure you haven't read my Non-Juan book yet, cause you got this thing DOWN!

-Mr. Non-Juan
 
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Re: Re: I Did Everything Right, But Didn't Get a 2nd Date

Originally posted by JackPrescott
You did everything A-OK, except that there existed no physical chemisrty. If there is powerful physical chemistry, a woman will fukk you on the first date, even if you take her on a tour of the local sewage plant.
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EXACTLY! NO KINO ON YOUR PART!

See...where you missed out was in the alleyway. After you scared the bejeebus out of her, you should have MAINTAINED THAT FRAME! You have to be consistant to be an alpha male.

What you should have done was after you popped out behind her, and scared her, you should have continued playing the part of the mugger, and started slapping her in the face. AND PREFERABLY WITH BACKHANDS because those are much more manly, and much more alpha. No wussy front slaps.
Then when she's screaming, and cowering on the ground, you take her purse and run. After 1 or 2 minutes, you should come back, and continue your act, by dragging her by the hair (note the KINO here) to the restaurant, where you can enjoy an awesome dinner. She will feel so dominated, and so controled, that she won't beable to help but fall madly in love with you, and your impressive kino skills.
 
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you should have yelled at her and called her names...

I usually make that mistake... first you fluff and find out what she hates being called.. then you yell it out the entire date as if you have terrets.

I hear spitting on her face is an aphrodisiac.. might want to look into that :crackup:
 
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I think I should have paid for dinner. That's where I went wrong.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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- Making her wait in an alley (and for awhile) ...
- Coming up behind her to scare her (she even cried) ...
- Being distant in conversation
- To cap it off, not paying for dinner

Gee, i wonder why she doesn't want to go another exciting fun-filled date with a guy that she can warm up to.

Now you know where you want, fix it for next time :)
 
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You didn't neg her enough. You should have told her she was really really ugly...but that there was something intriguing about her lack of personality..

That should bag day2...
 
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Dude, wtf, it would've been funny to offer to meet her in the alley behind the restraunt as a joke, I can't believe she actually did it though... lol. And you made her cry! At that point I would have concidered my attempt to be "non-predicable" a sucess and from then on threw in a little normalness.

After that everything you mentioned you did from then on pushed her farther and farther away. Gosh I wouldn't have gone out with you again either.

You're supossed to be non-predicable and funny. You'll know you're doing it right if you keep her laughing... not crying. At that point you should've guessed you weren't doing "everything right".

I think you're trying to hard. I wouldn't think about every little thing like that, just go out and make sure you're having a good time, that's all you need to focus on.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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