"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I Declare Myself A Sex Addict...

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I dont know what it is but i think im a sex addict, like today, i had sex with my gf, so right after we finished i felt good with no need of sex, she worked it too by the way, but anyway, after we was finished, like 30 mins later i was horny again i felt the need of busting one again, and its always like that, its like i have to have sex or ejaculate at least 3 times a day, everyday, and the most i can spend without ejaculating is 1 day, other than that i just cant think straight or concentrate or nothing.

Also when im out in the street or whatnot, i cant help it but to look at every females butt, and thies, its like i cant keep my head out of thinking sex everytime i see a female.

I dont know but i think thats addiction...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Don't worry dude, it happens to all of us.

Especially in the summer with the short skirts, I'm always thinking, "God, I could just walk up and stick it in there right now."

(GOD, I really want to actually _DO_ this one day. It's a fantasy of mine. Just fricking walk up to some HB10 in a miniskirt and DO her right there in public. Gaming her strictly with body language and eye contact... one day :D)

You're right... it doesn't matter whether you're getting any or not... how many girlfriends you have... or whatever.

It's just the nature of being a male. I think if women knew, like really really knew how horny we are, they'd just explode.

I think women understand that, yes, we're horny, but they don't REALLY get it.

Just like we understand their tests and their bull****, but who knows what it's actually like to have all of that female emotion bull**** clogging your thoughts?

We can't TRULY understand that.

And they can't TRULY understand our constant desire for sex.
 

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By the way, I'm not sure if you've heard what I believe they call "GM" style.

I have a variation on this that I use occasionally or switch into from my normal game.

I just express my desires to whomever I'm with. I say things matter-of-factly like:

"I could do her right now." (point)
"Daaaaaaaaaaammmmmmmnnnnnn." (gawking at some babe)

You can use lighter versions of this in foreplay.

I LOVE light roleplaying in foreplay. I act surprised that she has particular body parts.

Or I'll tell her that her neck is soft, and then I'll find some other soft spot (her belly, say) and act surprised.

"Hey! I found another soft spot. Awesome..." (kissing continues)

My single best thing that I use for foreplay is the word "Interesting."

We'll be kissing passionately or I'll be giving her a massage or kissing her body or just looking at her seductively and I'll break out "interesting."

This FREAKS women OUT. TOTALLY.

INTERESTING? What the HELL do I mean by that? =) Don't tell her, of course.

Lol, one girl I dated said, "this is only the second date" when I went to take her shirt off after some passionate kissing.

I said, "really? they don't teach us engineers to count that high... I wasn't keeping track."

Took shirt off anyway a bit later.

Holy CRAP this is a ramble. I'll stop.
 

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Man ... I wish I had a sex drive like yours; this would all be so much easier :D

Believe it or not, it's perfectly normal for a healthy male to be sexually attracted to females and want to have sex with them.

Abnormal behavior would be failing to act on it, except of course when you have something more important to do or another good reason not to.

True sexual addiction could be considered only when your desire for sexual stimulation significantly impairs your ability to function properly: chronically late to school/job; ditching school/job; sloppy, incomplete, or missing work because you spent too much time indulging yourself; porn/masturbation at school/job; spending more than you can afford on porn, prostitutes, etc., and so on.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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hmmmmm...well ive been late to work many times cause i was having sex and im bout to go out and look for a prostitute...so....lol
 

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well actually im still a teenager for one more month
 

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Originally posted by Plain & Simple

Also when im out in the street or whatnot, i cant help it but to look at every females butt, and thies
I do that also all the time :D

Actually, it is not a problem. It only shows that you are a normal, healthy male. Now if you were looking at the butts of men now that would be a problem!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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hey plain, when i read the subject i thought it was a post i wrote like a month ago or so... i have your same exact problem. many people here want to get a sex drive like ours, but i'd rather have it a little lower or, better yet, i'd learn to control it... when i'm with a girl i just known, we are usually talking about sex like a hour later we've met each other for the first time... the most slutty girls love this and they usually "rape" me, like they are the ones who start feeling me up or something like that...

the problem is that when you are a teenager, the slutty girls are usually the 5s and the 6s, not the hot babes you really want...

in fact, the hot babes think that i'm a sex addict or an immature guy and don't give me the time of the day


hopefully, when these stuck-up goodlooking b1tches get in their 20s, they start getting more slutty and i will finally bang them with no effort, without having to hide my real sex drive like i have to do now
 

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I think women understand that, yes, we're horny, but they don't REALLY get it.
Women think about sex much more often than you may think, Mr. Alphathree. :eek: ;)
 

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I dont think so ^^^ i cant picture a woman thinkin about sex more than i do.

To me women dont think about sex that often to be honest with u.
 

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Originally posted by Plain & Simple
I dont think so ^^^ i cant picture a woman thinkin about sex more than i do.

To me women dont think about sex that often to be honest with u.
No-No! I didnt say women think about sex more often than men. And for sure not more than the original thread starter haha :D

Just that sex is often in their minds, for girls in their 20's and maybe 30's too. But that's just my opinion.
 
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