"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I decided to give myself a break

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sangheilios

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I had recently posted a thread about feeling burnt out from all these confusing experiences I've been having with women. Reflecting upon this I've realized that as these annoying situations kept popping up I started putting more pressure on myself to do better and get the results I wanted, which ended up resulting in the exact opposite.

I decided to give myself a break and hit the reset button until I feel ready to have at it again or when the right opportunity comes along. I did something like this in the early part of this year, which then resulted in meeting women very easily after a break. What I did then, which I'm planning on doing now, is just spending time with my friends, building up more connections, enjoying my hobbies/interests, continue working out as I do, etc. I don't know if it's a personality trait, but whenever I seem to have a tough time with something I tend to actually go for things with a greater intensity, which ends up making things even worse.

However, I'm trying to look back on some of the experiences I've had over the summer and fall and try to see what I can learn from each one, so I'm going to post threads here about them.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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At my late teens, every weekend I was going off in the city beast mode and prowling for baeees. At thirty, its just not conducive nor are women worthy of the time. Ten years of cold approach between relations and life is no joke. Needless to say, I have seen female nature fir what it is and I am jaded as ****.

You need a framework. I spam cold approach. I swipe right at life. Neither are necessarily the best way to acquire but I am that guy.

Set your life up with game which is all encompassing. A trip to the grocery store I have a flirt. I have a flirt with nae at the front desk. It's practice.

Women are time vampires. They must follow your lead or she's another *** stain awaiting a abortion.

Abortion is hypergamy. The prevalence of female nature. Herein lies the nature of women choosing which genes proliferate the space time continuum.

She peaks early. Men peak late. As SMV craters, it's game over. Meanwhile new girls are turning 18 everyday.

Step game up. Marriage and monogamy is for cucks.
 
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You sound like unemployed George Costanza needing a vacation:

 
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