I've always wondered about this "unboundless energy of youth" that people talk about. Where the hell is it for me? What can i do to increase my enegy levels without any drugs. I know working out and diet is supposed to help, but what else?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.