So there was this girl I was seeing and hanging out with every now and then, we stopped talking altogether her choice not mine...id explain but I don't think its necessary for my questions. The last time I was with her about a month ago...it was with her and her friend at a concert. The girl I was interested in was just behaving coldly the whole night but her friend warmed up and talked with me just fine whenever the girl I was interested in was not around. This is the girl I am interested in now...she actually ended up driving me home that night when she found out I showed up and was leaving via bus as my only transportation. We had a good flowing conversation in her car during the ride home from Detroit. To be honest I was almost sure she was going to tell me to just get in with her.
Well anyhow, with barely knowing who she is and not talking to her for very long 1 on 1. She left me a message on my space a week ago saying hi and that we should get together and jam (we both play guitar and have a huge interest in musical intstruments and music itself) sometime along with Iming me out of the blue about a week after the concert...she got my screen name from my page.....mind you if she never sent that or tried talking to me I probably would have never talked to her again. I don't think she knows that me and her friend don't talk anymore but either way we have arranged to hangout on Weds of this week...hit a guitar center and play around with the gear there.
My questions are...
She must have some sort of interest or curiosity in my right? I mean why would she want to just randomly hangout with some guy she only meet once and really does not know? As far as I'm concerned I cannot already be in the friend zone and I have every chance of turning this into a relationship or at least a potential fb.
Do I bring up her friend and me not talking or if her friends name comes up in conversation somehow do I just avoid it or do I let her know "ya me and her dont talk anymore" This could be a double edged sword....
And finally how should I treat this, do I friend her and just go have a good time...show her that I'm a funny, humorous, and interesting person to be around?? Ill be sure to look and smell great as well....Just basically show her a great time and then see what happens from there? Do I bust out the gentleman card? Open doors and all that? Or is that just common procedure.
Give me your thoughts on how I should approach this whole thing. She also was trying to get me to go with her to a concert the other night because she had an extra ticket and was willing to give it to me as opposed to other friends of hers. I was busy though and couldnt make it....she has my number but I don't have hers. She asked for mine for future situations where she wanted to invite me to something with her. I'm also thinking about sending her a messaging confirming our plans for weds...good or bad idea?
Discuss!
Well anyhow, with barely knowing who she is and not talking to her for very long 1 on 1. She left me a message on my space a week ago saying hi and that we should get together and jam (we both play guitar and have a huge interest in musical intstruments and music itself) sometime along with Iming me out of the blue about a week after the concert...she got my screen name from my page.....mind you if she never sent that or tried talking to me I probably would have never talked to her again. I don't think she knows that me and her friend don't talk anymore but either way we have arranged to hangout on Weds of this week...hit a guitar center and play around with the gear there.
My questions are...
She must have some sort of interest or curiosity in my right? I mean why would she want to just randomly hangout with some guy she only meet once and really does not know? As far as I'm concerned I cannot already be in the friend zone and I have every chance of turning this into a relationship or at least a potential fb.
Do I bring up her friend and me not talking or if her friends name comes up in conversation somehow do I just avoid it or do I let her know "ya me and her dont talk anymore" This could be a double edged sword....
And finally how should I treat this, do I friend her and just go have a good time...show her that I'm a funny, humorous, and interesting person to be around?? Ill be sure to look and smell great as well....Just basically show her a great time and then see what happens from there? Do I bust out the gentleman card? Open doors and all that? Or is that just common procedure.
Give me your thoughts on how I should approach this whole thing. She also was trying to get me to go with her to a concert the other night because she had an extra ticket and was willing to give it to me as opposed to other friends of hers. I was busy though and couldnt make it....she has my number but I don't have hers. She asked for mine for future situations where she wanted to invite me to something with her. I'm also thinking about sending her a messaging confirming our plans for weds...good or bad idea?
Discuss!