"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I could just kick myself

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slitherjef

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Actualy thats not a bad idea... on sec...

*KICK*

Okay im back. I blew a chance today to get this girls number I have been after. Again. :rolleyes:

She was not too much into talking today so later in the evening I asked her what was up, she said she had a lot on her mind (think her kids are not feeling well) so that kind of had an effect. Later on I decided I should just go for it, wait till im off or near getting off and locating her by herself (I don't like having an audiance). So she happens to leave before I do and right there I thought I blew it for the night. I went up stairs where it was hot and there she was. AND I BLEW IT!

How? In probably the worse way. Did not even ask. All I did was say you outta here? and damn its friggin hot up here. All she said was, yup and **** yeah. I said it feels like hell and walk down stairs and got a drink of water.

Another shot. She came down after I did and all I said was, "Have fun" and she kind of mumbled.

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So it may have been a good thing I just left her be tonight anyways if her kids are not feeling well, she is going to have her mind elsewhere, but damnit!!! I just could not get the words out of my mouth.

How do you get past this?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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There is no way past it, you just have to be a man and do it. Don't think about possible outcomes or any of that shvt, just do it. If she's having other problems use it as another reason to call.

Be like "Well give me your number, I'll give you a call and cheer you up."

Then when you call, be funny. Laughter sets the mind at ease.
 
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Dannyrt34:
Dang! I wish I would have thought of that. Good one. Thanks :)

backbreaker:
Yes, she has kids and yes I still want her number. Why? Because I like her.

For some reason though it seems any girl I am interested in turns out having kids and or a boyfriend / "babies daddy" No idea why. Maybe its because the age group im interested in 21-30.

I guess with your comment, I am asking for it, but she does flirt with me (and others) and if nothing else I figure I can use her to help gain confidence and get more comfortable around women and if other girls start seeing me hang out with a hot chick, even if she is a milf, it just may open doors.

This is if I can just stop thinking and start doing
 
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