I could have made out but it was so fast that..

[pyros]

Hello guys.

In new year's eve, I was at a club. I was feeling pretty good, and drinking ...too much.
Anyway,
I was looking for my friends when I saw two girls. One 7.5, the friend 4.5.
Well, I started to talk to the 7.5 but very fast I was talking to both. After 3-4 minutes the friend says to me: 'I'm leaving for a moment, take care care of her ok?'
right in that moment I thought: 'woah, she's leaving us alone, should I make up with this girl now? do I? is a 'go go sign'? but we just briefly talked?'
well I doubted, so I keept talking. She said that she broke up with her boyfriend some months etc.
So I though again: woah, she just told me she is free and available, do I make out now? er...maybe we need a little bit more of chatting?'
then her friend returned.
We spoke for another 10-15 mins and I left them saying I was gonna look for my friends.

Damn it. I shoud have tryied to kiss her right? it felt a little odd because we were talking for 15mins or so, but I missed the oportunity right?
what would you have done when her friend left us?
this girl was sitting. I was standing.
She telegraphed her interest right?

The thing is it happened so fast, I mean, I got the feeling that I could make out with her so fast, that I got blocked by thinking it was 'too fast'....?¿¿¿¿

Suggestions?


Thanks!!

 

[Mike32ct]

I learned this the hard way a few times. Sometimes her friend will try to fix you up with her. If she's decent looking, go for it. Stick to her like glue. I'm not saying you had to go for a quick makeout, but don't eject when the friend comes back.

Those two have effectively "adopted" you for the evening so you can get know the newly single gal better. Most female friends are c@ckblocks. But sometimes when planets are in alignment and it's like the third Thursday of an even month lol, the chick who looks like a c@ckblock plays matchmaker. It's golden.

 

[Mike32ct]

But I'll get back to your question. No, I would NOT have attempted a fast makeout knowing her friend is coming right back, for two reasons:

(Let's just use the terms HBTarget and Friend.)

1. Friend thinks highly of you to let you keep HBTarget company. Don't ruin that good will by having her come back in five minutes to see you making out. That will look quite sleezy. It also shows zero class. Friend could turn from matchmaker to c@ckblock if that happens.

2. While HBTarget was clearly interested, I don't think it warranted moving super fast. I would have put my hand on her back and chatted with her a bit and got some light kino going. Or even start dancing with her a bit.

Then you could have invited both girls onto the dancefloor. Dance with HBTaget most of the time. Spin the Friend around a few times so she doesn't feel left out. When Friend goes to the bathroom/toilet, brush HBTarget's hair aside and make out with her.