The Duke
Master Don Juan
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Yes I did.
Had an OLD girl I met. Turns out my buddy was talking to her as well. So to mess with her we both asked her to meet up at the same time. She requested that he take her to some high dollar steak place. She wanted to reschedule me for lunch. We both said no.
We both kept texting her for another week off and on, but she was super hard to pin down. Girl would cancel dates multiple times on both of us. I even called her twice which she never answered and ended up asking her out 4 times thru texts. The only reason I kept talking to her and broke all of the rules was because her and I had really good chemistry thru texts and we had really good banter back and forth. I was having fun messing with her and wasn't out anything. I also wanted to see what would happen if I stayed in it.
Eventually I told her she was just using me because I was so fun to talk to and most dudes were boring. She claimed she truly wanted to go out with me. I eventually turned it sexual and she stopped herself.
So after 2 months, 2 times she flaked we finally go out. lol Had a very good first date that turned sexual. She didn't get home until the sun came up. Had great chemistry just as we both suspected.
On the 2nd date she came to my house. Made some appetizers, drank wine, watched a movie and started making out half way thru. I told her I wanted to take her to my bedroom and cuddle naked so we could feel closer to each other. I pushed the envelope to have full sex with her but she wasn't going to have it. Definitely got super wet and got each other off.
This weekend will be our 3rd date in 3-4wks time. She hasn't shown any flakeyness after getting her on the first date. She has told me I am "dangerous" and I make her nervous but she liked it! haha. Of course they all do. Thats what makes tingles.
Most likely this girl was out on multiple dates with probably better looking guys than me which was why she wouldn't commit to anything. Eventually Howie had his turn and as usual I am the most fun guy she has ever been out with.
She is a very feminine girl that appreciates a masculine man so I wasnt afraid to let her know I like seducing women. Confirming her suspcions by telling her and showing her I liked the company of women might have hurt my chances to get laid early, but it probably helped me generate attraction. She knows that guys that come on fast leave fast too and I'm one of them. This girls analyzes people for a living and she is good at it. She figured me out very fast. I also did the majority of the talking on our first date which is rare. She has gotten more out of me than I have her and usually its the other way around.
Moral of the story: You never know. Nothing about this was standard protocol/behavior. All the way thru this I didn't care what the outcome was. Still don't. There should be no hard and fast rules to any of this. Learn the basics here and get out there and see what works for you. Stop being outcome dependent and you will be more successful. I knew there was excellent chemistry between us, she was hot, so I kept at it just to see what would happen and its turned out good so far.
Had an OLD girl I met. Turns out my buddy was talking to her as well. So to mess with her we both asked her to meet up at the same time. She requested that he take her to some high dollar steak place. She wanted to reschedule me for lunch. We both said no.
We both kept texting her for another week off and on, but she was super hard to pin down. Girl would cancel dates multiple times on both of us. I even called her twice which she never answered and ended up asking her out 4 times thru texts. The only reason I kept talking to her and broke all of the rules was because her and I had really good chemistry thru texts and we had really good banter back and forth. I was having fun messing with her and wasn't out anything. I also wanted to see what would happen if I stayed in it.
Eventually I told her she was just using me because I was so fun to talk to and most dudes were boring. She claimed she truly wanted to go out with me. I eventually turned it sexual and she stopped herself.
So after 2 months, 2 times she flaked we finally go out. lol Had a very good first date that turned sexual. She didn't get home until the sun came up. Had great chemistry just as we both suspected.
On the 2nd date she came to my house. Made some appetizers, drank wine, watched a movie and started making out half way thru. I told her I wanted to take her to my bedroom and cuddle naked so we could feel closer to each other. I pushed the envelope to have full sex with her but she wasn't going to have it. Definitely got super wet and got each other off.
This weekend will be our 3rd date in 3-4wks time. She hasn't shown any flakeyness after getting her on the first date. She has told me I am "dangerous" and I make her nervous but she liked it! haha. Of course they all do. Thats what makes tingles.
Most likely this girl was out on multiple dates with probably better looking guys than me which was why she wouldn't commit to anything. Eventually Howie had his turn and as usual I am the most fun guy she has ever been out with.
She is a very feminine girl that appreciates a masculine man so I wasnt afraid to let her know I like seducing women. Confirming her suspcions by telling her and showing her I liked the company of women might have hurt my chances to get laid early, but it probably helped me generate attraction. She knows that guys that come on fast leave fast too and I'm one of them. This girls analyzes people for a living and she is good at it. She figured me out very fast. I also did the majority of the talking on our first date which is rare. She has gotten more out of me than I have her and usually its the other way around.
Moral of the story: You never know. Nothing about this was standard protocol/behavior. All the way thru this I didn't care what the outcome was. Still don't. There should be no hard and fast rules to any of this. Learn the basics here and get out there and see what works for you. Stop being outcome dependent and you will be more successful. I knew there was excellent chemistry between us, she was hot, so I kept at it just to see what would happen and its turned out good so far.
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