"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I commited DJ blasphemies. Come in here and punish me like the ***** I am.

SpazzAttackk

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So. Started seeing a girl. Didnt really put her on a pedestal but I felt the connection. I ended up chasing. Disgusted with myself for chasing, I decided to go complete ******* on her. She doesnt reply now and I wont lie, I feel torn.

Let this be a lesson to any dudes catching feelings. Dont ****ing catch feelings. You end up *****ing out. It happens to the best of DJs though.

Worst. Feeling. Ever. Being ashamed of yourself, and having a broken heart


:cuss: Read the DJ bible for me tonight fellas and pray for my sins.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ronaldo7

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Sounds like your sister.
 

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SpazzAttackk said:
You got me bro. Your insults are strong and witty much like your game
:crackup: :crackup: buuuuuurrrrnnnnnn! +1


but thats negated by you going and catching feelings.

DJ 101: PROTECT YOUR HEART.
FOLLOW YOUR GUT.
SPIN FVCKING PLATES.


IF IN DOUBT? - DONT TEXT.

If you're confused - SHE AINT INTO YOU.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Ronaldo7

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SpazzAttackk said:
You got me bro. Your insults are strong and witty much like your game
You wouldn't have responded otherwise.
 

DonGorgon

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catching feelings is human... it takes strength and other options to avoid it..llol

same thing happen to me with a 19 year old HB10 that i had for 7 months her interest lever started dropping and ji chased and she broke things off so i said F it and deleted her number and dins talk for 2 moths then she contacted me say she misses me and has been thinking about me..lol i will now play her.. cause i dont like her beyond sex any more..lo
 
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