You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Don't know about I commerce, but Quixtar is a well-known pyramid organization. That is, only a few of the senior-level members actually make any money. Google it.jmeredi said:Anyone ever heard of these things? If so, what are your opinions?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Ok. So what does your friend do? What's his job? And what is the company's purpose/product?Mission said:Also, if it were infact a "well-known" pyramid scam it would have been shut down by now. The company has been around for years.
--Mission
Generally, quixtar ibo's are encouraged to spend to the hilt everything they got, the fake it till you make it. Drive a Mercedes but live in it. Buy a house but be up to eyeballs in credit card debt because you'll get to the next level where you can pay for it. Looks can be deceiving.Mission said:Actually I have a friend who is involved in Quixstar, and he makes tons of money, enough to have a home and lots of cool ****, and he has no other soure of income. The people that complain about these scams are the lazy people that think they will sign up for Quixstar and make instant money, it doesn't work like that, you need to invest time and energy into it to start making good money.
--Mission
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.