"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I come barring gifts of goodwill and peace
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
~attrACTION~
Banned
Freaking sweet! Thanks man!
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
look at it when I get back to college
comic_relief
comic_relief
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
bigjohnson
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I just enjoyed how the thread title seems to mean almost the opposite of what it was intended to mean. Classic.
Ken785
Master Don Juan
sites like this are pure genius!! who needs to pay for satelitte tv when youve got this. may not have mainstream channels but its ok.:rockon: the only thing is... the porn doesnt work....
Ken785
Master Don Juan
Thanks a lot man. This is simply amazing...this is going to be bigger than youtube one day! I watch the Live cam section...WOW!!!! its the only place where you can get live feeds from all over the world whether it be a BAR in ISREAL or a PIZZA PARLOUR in the UK or maybe a look at downtown Japan...i wonder if these people even know theyre being watched?? i find that just crazy man!!!!
My big question is...how to they aquire all these live feeds onto satelittee to broadcast???
My big question is...how to they aquire all these live feeds onto satelittee to broadcast???
Ken785
Master Don Juan
anyone else pissed that the porn channels dont work?? i mean, i do have all the right plug ins...most of the other regular channels ive checked out work. do they have ppv sports and hbo and stuff too?? or is this like FTA (Free To Air) channels?
i mean, i do have all the right plug ins...most of the other regular channels ive checked out work. do they have ppv sports and hbo and stuff too?? or is this like FTA (Free To Air) channels?"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
uh...porn channels work perfectly fine... sometimes there isn't any on a particular channel. the pron channels were teh sole reason for the post.Ken785 said:anyone else pissed that the porn channels dont work??
how did I find it? It's amazing what you can do with a search engine
Ken785
Master Don Juan
i tried everything,ASIAN<ASIAN2,BLONDE,BLACK,DP,BRUNETTE, nothing works its all black.