"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I cheated on my gf now what?

Skydiver43127

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You can't cheat on a relationship when there isn't one there to cheat on. Tell the "Girlfriend" to get out, or leave yourself is your name isn't on the lease.
Took the words from my mouth. You have to have an exclusive relationship to be able to cheat - this is clearly not the case. You can keep her as a FB if you wish. But don't share a place with her.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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be.the.man

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"im sooooo sorry I had to come up and talk to so and so (a friend she had a falling out with a while ago)"

that wouldnt surprise me if she was shagging a guy in that hour or so she took to text you.

Dump her I say. You dont seem to be in control, shes turned off from you and now shes running riot. And the ex girlfriend if you dont want to go out with her shag her. She was in your girlfriends PJ's!!! I dont see the point hurting her like igetit said, your the man show your above her. Dump her, move on, play gangi games on her and use the ex girlfriend while shes interested, because at the end of the day poon is poon.
 
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