I cheated on her

[CherryBreaker]

Well guys,
My Don Juan ways got a little too far last week. I hanged out with my gf's best friend while my girlfriend went back home for a month and during one of those times, we both got drunk and crazy and I slept with her.

My girlfriend found out and dumped me and now I'm dating a different girl.

Thing is, right now my ex is going crazy and calling me every damn hour and sending love cards and telling me how she misses and loves me alot.

I know its over and I admit it to her that I cheated and when she dumped me, I thought I deserved it. That's confusing to me fo her wanting me back after she got over her "getting mad at me" phase.

Any of you guys experienced this and how do you get this monkey off your back?

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

She may want to get close to you again to seek revenge? How long was your relationship?

Her "best" friend?? Not much of a friend!

 

[FratAndDiddy]

i would say she's got a plan up her sleeve. steer clear bro

 

[italostud]

Yup, hell hath no fury like a woman scorned!

Just move on bro. There's no point looking back. You burned that bridge good.

 

[PRMoon]

How long have you two been broken up? She might have seperation anxiety because you moved on so quickly.

Still though don't go back to her. She probably snap back to b*tch mode real quick if you do. Also you don't want to live with the reality of her not trusting you as much anymore, nor play with the idea of her cheating on you then throwing "the incident" back in your face as her defense.

Starting fresh with a new girl was the way to go, don't look back now.

 

[MindOverMatter]

You ever hear of the saying, "keep you friends close, and keep your enemies even closer"?

You burned this girl real bad. She could miss you, or she could be setting you up for some revenge. It's your call, I personally wouldn't go for it.

 

[DJ Hawtness]

Let's face it, your ex's best friend saw an opportunity and took it. You obviously had the balls of steel, and there was something about you that even her best friend wanted a piece of the action.

My advice, let your ex be, if you can do this to women, than you can get hotter women than both of them.

 

[Jake-inator]

If you want to see this girl turn into a total AFC just to prove a point, and give us all a good laugh... This would be the perfect time to say LJBF.


Just a little payback for every girl that did that to you...

 

[CharmaLeo]

Women are very insecure and will forgive a man more easily than a man would.

You showed her that she is not #1 and she feels rejected big time.

Option 1- You get back together and sooner or later she will throw it in your face.

Option 2- You are a "cheater" and it is in your nature. Get used to it, and as you see she will still be with you regardless.

Option 3- Forget about her and date other women.

The thing is that you will cheat sooner or later so don't make yourself misserable and continue seeing her. Just polish your skills for next time.

Option 4 - The ball is in your court = booty call.

 

[CherryBreaker]

re:

Thanks all!

You know, I've noticed. The only time a girl is totally head over heals AFC wuss is when they see you with another gal! This isn't the first time it's happened with an ex.

Man girls are just too F'ed up and confusing. They want you when you're taken. This ex is the first girl I became Don Juan with after practicing with others. I never was too nice, I acted like I could leave her, if she did something wrong I let her know, and I was always the one to suggest I need to leave first after a date.

Basically, I llearned what my past girls did that turned me into an AFC and I projected that onto her.

Oh well, life must go on w/o her.

 

[Luscious]

Avoid the ex.

Once you nail another girl AND SHE FINDS OUT, the relationship is trash.

As long as she doesn't find out, you're good.

BUT - back to the subject. It's very good that you realized you can't go back to that, and more or less exactly WHY your ex was doing that stuff. Good analysis.

 

[Jay-X]

i personally would go back with my girlfriend if all this stuff happened to me... but it's just because i really love my girlfriend

 

[PRMoon]

Originally posted by Jay-X
i personally would go back with my girlfriend if all this stuff happened to me... but it's just because i really love my girlfriend

Have you ever seen what happens to girls mentally when they get "betrayed" like this. We're talkin mental breakdown on a critical mass level. You don't want to be on the recieving end of that.

 

[Lost In Translation]

PRMoon
Have you ever seen what happens to girls mentally when they get "betrayed" like this. We're talkin mental breakdown on a critical mass level. You don't want to be on the recieving end of that.

amen.

If you go back to your ex you are a FOOL and it could cost you BIGTIME. she is out for revenge.


Lost In Translation

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

 

[Skullcrusher]

The dark side is strong in your ex-girlfriend and to the rest of ya'll : never ****ing ever get involved with a current or ex girlfriends female friends. You may want to bang them and such but it can only be her friend to initiate a romance never you.

 

[Joe The Homophobe]

So you cheated on your girlfriend..BIG DEAL!

the keyword here is "girlfriend," she is just your girlfriend not your wife! you have no obligation to be faithful to no woman that ain't your wife!