I cheated on her, she's changing

[ryanbo29]

No ****, right?

I cheated on my girlfriend, and though I was totally in the wrong, i won't go into details, but it's a less bad than it seems. Anyhow, I've learned my lesson. It'll never happen again.

Anyhow, although she definitely wants to work it out, and we're even considering couple's therapy, I've noticed some changes.


She's buying other little things.
She's buying new clothes. She's buying new fake eyelashes she's never had before (but she did wear them that night at a party we both went to.)
She wants to start tanning.

Do you guys think this is a pickmeup confidence builder for her, or her just sticking around with me until she's back into tip top dating shape before dumping me?

Thanks

 

[Egoist]

Originally posted by ryanbo29


Do you guys think this is a pickmeup confidence builder for her, or her just sticking around with me until she's back into tip top dating shape before dumping me?

good question :crackup:

 

[Skydiver43127]

Dude, you raised the stakes. Now you have to play the game. It's YOU she's picking up, after she lost you. Try to be a catch worth the effort.

 

[shiningshadow]

I think she's trying to look good to keep you.

 

[MightyMate]

You told her?

 

[ryanbo29]

No.. she found out.. And ever since, she's wanted to be around me every day.. Which I have allowed, since I ****ed up. Last two days have been pretty hard, though. I think she's trying to "punish me"...Anyone else dealt with that.

Thanks for the advice, by the way.

 

[dirtyvibe]

i know someone who cheated on their wife then the wife got breast implants and liposuction.. with his money.. thats similar to whats happening with you.

 

[ryanbo29]

I'm not paying for any of the stuff

 

[Ice Cold]

Originally posted by shiningshadow
I think she's trying to look good to keep you.

Yeah, if she's sticking around then she's prolly just trying to improve herself so that you won't wanna cheat next time