"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I can't think of anything worse than "settling"

CuddleJunkie

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1.5 years of working hard is progressing when you set your mind and discipline to your goals. How's your progress going @CuddleJunkie?
Very good! Currently I have 2 girls in rotation, one being the hottest one (to date) I'm banging. She's the youngest too! My body is at its best (still a long way to go to my goal, but hey, I was fat as **** when I began), my career path is going in my desired direction and, most important of all...I'm working on an academic book (Aristotle)! The biggest thing you can do to improve fast, I've say this before, is working on your social circle skills. Getting in contact with people that bring you girls, opportunities to work in projects, to travel with them, to learn new things about the world...really a game changer.
In 1-2 years I'm moving to a BIG city, which should even give me more opportunities.

I'm hitting a rut tho, I won't be able to work any harder on my career, as I have to make some time in order to be able to progress anymore...so that's a bit frustating. I will keep focusing on wisdom, game, and lifting. Who knows, if I have a good experience with Aristotle I might keep on writing about the classics! The West need to get in touch with it's roots, lots of people going back to vikings and other barbarians whilst overlooking the Greeks and the Romans...something to fix and that I would like to work in!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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