"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Anyways, my current prospect was with my friend and his girlfriend so I marched over, took my friend's girlfriend's arm off my target and tossed it on my friend and I set off with my prospect. 2 hours of class later, we are saying goodbye and she's been giving me every sign in the book all week, primarily the look. You know the look... that 100% interest look you see in movies, yaaaa.
Kinda a scary.... but so ego boosting ;)

Anyhow, we usually kiss each other on the cheek which is standard, so we did that, I was talking to my friends then waiting for someone so we could leave and she was still there and I felt I'd regret it if I didn't do something so I walked by and her shoe dirtied my pants so I turned real angry and scolded her and she asked me what I was going to do about it and decided best not tell her because actions speak louder than words.

Guess what happened next? ;)

ROAR.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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School, same class. Turned out to be a quality person so I went in.

Final update:

Had a free hour this afternoon so I walked up to her trying to get my coat zipper up and asked her if she had a coat. Again, I seem to have absent mindedly gotten very close because I look up from my zipper and her face is right there! I rarely do things absent mindedly... However!

We leave the school to go on a walk and she suggests we go to the park to play on the monkey bars. To tell you the truth, that never happened. We did go to the park but it definatly wasn't for monkey bars.. Light flirting, some discussion about fears (fear of heights, fear of pain, both of which she is subject to). A bit later, I daringly cross the monkey bars by walking on them even though my shoes were very slippery. Jump down to the other side and this was the extent of the conversation:

'I was worth risking your life?'

At which point I did not have the time to say anything because as you can imagine, my efforts were rewarded...handsomely.:D

That would mark the begining of a relationship. I do not just assume that we are together, I set it up so that by sunday (ofcourse I set up a date, what did you expect?) she would ask if we were infact together. You know, a bit of mystery was left.
 
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