"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I can't take it anymore( Need a little advice)

streamer434

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I recntly needed some advice about this girl who asked me if I liked her and what I should do after I said yes. Well after I followed what one of you guys told me " focus ur attention on other girls and then she wont want to lose you" or something like that she have called me numerous times and we've talked quite a bit.(This is alot more than b4) Now I want to know what do I do now cuz I cant take this anymore. I really like her and its not like I dont talk to or go out with other girls but I just find myself thinking about her for no godamm aparent reason. Me and her have known each other for abour 4yrs but its until I left for college I started having these kind of feelings.now I can really use some help with this one cuz I'm about to lose my mind.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dannowillbookem

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oh u can give her another chance. go ahead and mention that ur giving her another shot lol but like half the point of moving on was to attract her more.
 

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If you moved away to college, then why are you obsessing someone distant? You must really like Baby Bash then, huh?
 

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Originally posted by bluelemond
If you moved away to college, then why are you obsessing someone distant? You must really like Baby Bash then, huh?

well i'm not really that far away, but i guess i like her so much bcuz i've known her 4 a while. I dont get obessed over girls like that but i guess this 1 is becuz we have a history.......I don't no.
 
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