"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I can't stop laughing

TizZle

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I was banging this chick(from work) while she had a boyfriend. They broke it off about a month after i started fvcking her. One night the condom failed but she took plan B the next day(within 9 hours). She started acting all weird because that situation never happened before.

Her and i haven't hung out in a week and she's been acting distant. I got a text last night of her saying "goodnight". I didn't text back until today saying "lets go swimming today or tomorrow". She texted,"Im at school" I text her again a few hours later saying," If you haven't started your period yet you need to take that test you have left. Its been 28 days since you said you had your last period." I get a text back 30 min later saying," <ex-boyfriends name> , just seen that text tell me if he texts u" Then another text 40 min later saying, "he is probably going to take my phone so we probably shouldn't text anymore." I text her back, "lmao, didnt know you 2 were back together. thanks for that information."

She calls 3 minutes later(sounds like shes been crying) saying that he might call me and that i should just tell him to not call again.. blah blah blah.. she wanted me to promise that i wouldnt say anything and i said " why should i promise you anything, if he calls im going to tell him to come to my house and we can talk about it." she went on saying that she told him that her and i were going to have sex but we didn't b,c she was on her period. LOL... And i guess none of her friends know we were banging but all mine do. I got off the phone shortly after that saying i had stuff to do.

Guess the dude will learn on his own. If he calls do you guys think i should meet him face to face instead? I'm not scared of this kid whatsoever..

I'm not going to contact this chick again... I might be able to fvck her a few more times but it doesn't even look like its gonna be worth it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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talk to him face to face and tell him straight up for his own good. Her fault for being a slut.

why should i promise you anything, if he calls im going to tell him to come to my house and we can talk about it.
do this^
 

eaglez1177

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Tell her bf everything, he deserves to know.
 

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tell her bf politely but firmly, to take it up with her. why get her in trouble? It sounds like she never dissed you, so I assume shes a decent girl. Say nothing either way to the guy, as she sort of requested of you. Then... you may still have a fb plate after the dust settles
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The hell with the moralists.

Its not your job to get involved in her affairs. I would have nothing to say to the chump.
 

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By talking, I was going to see if he was going to be ****y or not. I wasn't going to tell him anything. That would ruin any potential lays from her in the future, if i decide to even bang her again.

Update:
Txt convo
Me: Put my jordan shorts in your car and leave them at work
Her: okay
5 min later
Her: i just started my period
Me: Thank god
Her: ha ha
30 min later
Me: don't worry if he tries to get ahold of me. I have nothing to say to him
Her: for real =)
End convo

Gonna leave this alone for a while. The best play is probably withdrawal. Would possibly like to bang her a few more times. What do you guys think?
 

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I wouldnt never meet a dude after banging his girl...could be some hate and gun waiting. Seen it too many times. Girls will get you killed homie!!
 

TizZle

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She_feelin_Me said:
I wouldnt never meet a dude after banging his girl...could be some hate and gun waiting. Seen it too many times. Girls will get you killed homie!!
He doesn't know... Or he's in denial... She lies when he starts to ask her questions. A woman that lies go figure.

Think you missed the part where i said that i wasnt scared of this kid... Anyways i doubt he will try to get ahold of me...
 

Joe Stud

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resist your urge to be a john wayne, or a wyatt erp and meet the guy. you are feeling your oats and are inviting a tangle. My rule is... never tangle over something that wont affect you down the line. just tell the guy to take it up with her. see by her text? she appreciates that you are keeping her in confidence. shes a decent girl, dont burn her.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She came up to work the other day and apologized to me outside for ignoring me. I sent her one text that that she didn't text back(6 days previous) and i never mentioned anything about it.. LoL. It was kind of weird. Though it was probably because we haven't hung out or talked much in the past 8-9 days.

Joe Stud mentioned a possible FB plate once the dust settles. Anyone here had any experience doing this? I know i'd probably have to respark her IL again somehow. I'm not too worried about this girl, she would be like a side project(ego boost mainly) as my friends and i have plans to hit up hot spots within 60-70 min of our town on the weekends now as colleges around here are about to start.
 
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