"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I can't stand blondes.

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I have no idea why. I just prefer brunettes and some redheads. Anyone else get a vibe of "fake" from blondes, even if they're natural blondes?

Apparently other dudes REALLY like blondes. They can have them.

I think that the whole blonde thing is really unnatural, because the light hair color and light skin makes for some really weird contrast. Unless she's really tan, but that again goes with the fake thing.

So, are many men socially conditioned to drool after blondes, or what the hell is going on?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I've never been into blondes. I think it's the whole Paris Hilton thing that killed it for me.
 

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EvilAgenda said:
I don't limit myself to a color of girl's hair.
I certainly do.

I'm very selective about the women I date, and they need to be up to my standards. And NOT being blonde is one of them.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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lol for some reason i have always hated blondes. they give off this vibe of b1tch/slut. its too AW'ish. always been a fan of brunettes. funny though, the girl im seeing now is dark blonde.. so i'll make an exception :p
 

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Blondes to f.uck, brunettes for relationships, and redheads don't count because they don't have souls.
 

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i hate when guys drool over big boobed blonde bimbos. i mean, no taste at all. its just boring. i like unique looking women. here's an example of what most guys think is hot these days:

http://a278.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/44/l_cc640cbabf1a81fe6740a398bcbe1abd.jpg

sure shes not bad looking but girls like that don't fire me up at all. like someone else said above, blondes for just a fuk. anything else they just bore me.

i like unique looking women, for example:

http://www.oocities.org/vinreeds/Kristin_Kreuk_naughty.jpg

god she is blessed with natural beauty. i love her!
 

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I think a better question would be:

If everything was the same (looks, personality, boob size, facial features) what color hair would you choose to put on the girl?

Basically, the girl is a perfect 10. The only thing different is the hair color. Which color?
 

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Vice said:
I have no idea why. I just prefer brunettes and some redheads. Anyone else get a vibe of "fake" from blondes, even if they're natural blondes?
Almost all blondes augment their hair color in some way or other, frosting it or lightening it, if not changing it all together. But redheads are just as bad, few girls that you see out with red hair are natural.

Some girls learn early on that they can get extra attention by dying their hair red, so they keep it red for so long it almost seems like they really are redheads. I read that Christina Hendricks has been dying her hair red since she was ten years old.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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RockaRolla25 said:
Blondes to f.uck, brunettes for relationships, and redheads don't count because they don't have souls.

i know a red headed girl who i would insta date. shes awesome.

but now her hair is dark dark brown so i don't know.
 

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Vice said:
I have no idea why. I just prefer brunettes and some redheads. Anyone else get a vibe of "fake" from blondes, even if they're natural blondes?

Apparently other dudes REALLY like blondes. They can have them.

I think that the whole blonde thing is really unnatural, because the light hair color and light skin makes for some really weird contrast. Unless she's really tan, but that again goes with the fake thing.

So, are many men socially conditioned to drool after blondes, or what the hell is going on?
No idea, but I think it's awesome so many men want blondes. I'd never date a blonde girl as it doesn't attract me and it means there are more brunettes for me.

IMO part of it is social conditioning and part of it is personal preference. It is conditioning in the sense that, because a lot of men say they prefer blondes, others want to beat them. But it personal preference in the sense, in order for there to be any competition, at least some part of the male population will have to prefer blondes.
 

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I'm gonna take a hit on this, but what's up with you guys?

My wife is a true blonde and I dig it! To me, a natural blonde looks much more feminine. Now the ones that dye their fvcking hair, well, you may have a point.

A blonde doesn't necessarily = a slvt.
 

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I have only dated brunettes, and 1 redhead. And I've always told myself I like brunettes better.

Ever since getting back in the dating scene the last few months, I have had a crazy thing for blondes. I don't know what happened all of the sudden. And I mean natural blonde only.

I think it's hilarious how you are dissing guys who have been "conditioned" to think blondes are hot, and then turn around and call every blonde fake, slutty, or an AW.

Even still, if I could put together the perfect woman for me... she would have straight brown hair and tan skin. But I might need some blonde on the side :)
 

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I've read several articles about studies that show that men actually prefer brunettes to blondes. Here's just one I Googled up:

http://www.prevention.com/health/health/sex-relationships/gentlemen-prefer-brunettes/article/81fa68f271903110VgnVCM10000013281eac____

It's more of a girl next door look, I suppose.

I've gone through phases. When I was in my teens I preferred blondes, then when I got into my 20s I decided I liked brunettes better. Something about the dark and sultry, I guess. Currently I think redheads are the hottest - something about the rarity I guess. I've been out with some redheads but I've never found one with a personality that I really click with, that I would stay with.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Vice said:
I have no idea why. I just prefer brunettes and some redheads. Anyone else get a vibe of "fake" from blondes, even if they're natural blondes?

Apparently other dudes REALLY like blondes. They can have them.

I think that the whole blonde thing is really unnatural, because the light hair color and light skin makes for some really weird contrast. Unless she's really tan, but that again goes with the fake thing.

So, are many men socially conditioned to drool after blondes, or what the hell is going on?
I dunno about you, but I just happen to find platinum blonde extremely attractive. No dirty blondes though. Also, I ****ing hate girls who spend a lot of time tanning, not only is it bad for you, its just lame. Go outside *****.
 

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i usually feel that blondes to me are in the "HOT/ONE NIGHT STAND" category. when i look at a brunette/dark blonde i see girlfriend material. that's just me.
 

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blonds do have more fun which means get more positive sexual attention because they are seen as the highest quality and most desirable whites and humans on earth...

in the black community the equivalent of being "blond" is being light skinned and having long hair and as many non-black features as possible.. that is considered superior and those black get treatment similar to blonds...lol humans are very funny animals...
 

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Don't really care about a girl's hair color myself. They can always get a dye job. Maybe your brunette was born a natural blonde.
 

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I can't stand people who can't stand people for something as trivial as their fvcking hair color!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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