"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I can't seem to imagine what this is ? HELP

parrot84

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Hey! I'm Dennis! I salute you all!

1. I met 60 days ago a girl on a dating website.
2. During 20 days of acting like a *****, being ****y/funny like ****, not exaggerating, i made the girl get interested in me (i searched google for my own psychotic curiosity and this girl has an account to every well known dating site in my country; done that recently :p, i wonder who's more psycho, me or her?) ; i mention that i didn't called her for 20 days ; just talking on the IM , being funny, ignorant though sometimes sweet (very rare) , practically a cool guy to hang out with.
3. she very well agreed the 21'th day to meet me. we went in a park, she seemed so sweet and innocent at fist; the she asked me if we could step on the grass; i agreed; we started kissing; then the hard stuff begun; she went all over me; she started rubbing me, allowing me to put my hand on her butt, bitting her neck, and when (i always end the first date) i wanted to end the stuff (why ? : because i'm stupid ) she tried to grub my **** , and tried to make me lick her tits, :D.
3'. OK. This may seem like a 90% succes date; the girl is all over you trying to
make out with you as much as posible; BUT, for me, it's the first kind of girl like this.

4. Three days i didn't call, just SMS'd her once to met me again . She agreed. We met in the parc in the weekend . The same stuff. I grabbed her butt, kissing, sweet stuff, tolled me i'm her lover and she will never cheat on me, funny stuff like that! We had hun! THOUGH this time i didn't end the date , she ended it after 3 hours, cause her mom was waiting her !

5. Cool stuff. I never called her for 1 week, we just sms each other. PRACTICALLY , she sms'd me and 50% of times i answered the SMS (EX: her: "what do you do?" ME: " hei! picking up girls ! Miss you! :* ; that kind of stuff)... Now i sms'd her the next week, probably 3 times, trying to meet her , and she always said "OK", and two hours before (because i told her if she flakes to tell me 2 hours in advance) she flaked telling me she has her driving licence **** , practically started to play hard to get ! in the weekend she went to the mountains ! I SMS' her (SMS: " A HUG" ) , she responded (sexual SMS , which i didn't respond) and i called her : SHE said all the *****y stuff like "WHY DIDN'T YOU CALL" , "THE MAN HAS TO CALL", "WILL YOU WAIT FOR ME" , **** like that !

6. All being done, we met the next weekend , and I did the best ****y/funny routines on her i could imagine. I treated her like my bratty little sister and she all laughed and seemed to like the **** very well.
So while we were doing this , she called SOMEONE (SHE said it was her 30 year old GIRLFRIEND) and asked(HER/HIM) whether he/she would meet her this sunday :)D in front of me) to drink coffee :D . I of course acted ignorantly and never bother asking who she called . I even drove her to the MALL where she suposedly would meet this chick!

7. REMEMBER ! I called this giri very rarelly ! ONCE A WEEK MAX! the next week when i get online she was very upsey with all kinds of **** like:
a. You were looking at other girls while being with me
b. You never kissed me goodbye.
c. You're very rude and you never call mer; I'm sick calling you !

So she said why should i met you again !

8. After she said that before we met the 4-th time she became very flacky! AND with my stupidity i accepted that !
We met the 4-th time, we kissed and stuff, we made out but not as hot as in the first date. She ended the date of course, beause she GOT a SMS from who know's who and that's it!

9. Since then it's 1 MONTH ! We just chated on the IM and , all the CHATTING WAS STARTED BY her ! I played "WALK AWAY" ! 3 days ago i called her , she seemed HAPPY and stuff !

10. Friday i sent her an SMS tellling her i want her to meet me sunday , so she better not "REFUSE" me ! She said ok , we'll TALK ! :D

11. Today , SUNDAY , I ENTER THE IM , SHE CALLS ME , starts kissing me and **** , i ask her "WE GO OUT?" , she says "MY MOM DOESN'T LET ME" :)D she's 19 by the way) but she says when the first salary comes she will by me dinner and take me to the theatre ! AND SHE KISSES ME AND THAT's ALL!

I KNOW SHE'S MEETING OTHER GUYS ! SHE'S ON EVERY DATING SITE ON MY COUNTRY ! **** THAT ! BUT I LIKE HER !

I've BEEn COOL , never called to often ! Sometimes sweet !

What to make of THIS?
What to make of THIS?
What to make of THIS?
What to make of THIS?
What to make of THIS?

She is starting to flake ! WHAT TO DO ?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Are there any hills in the park where you meet this girl? If so, I suggest you run for them....
 
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parrot84 said:
Hey! I'm Dennis! I salute you all!

1. I met 60 days ago a girl on a dating website.
2. During 20 days of acting like a *****, being ****y/funny like ****, not exaggerating, i made the girl get interested in me (i searched google for my own psychotic curiosity and this girl has an account to every well known dating site in my country; done that recently :p, i wonder who's more psycho, me or her?) ; i mention that i didn't called her for 20 days ; just talking on the IM , being funny, ignorant though sometimes sweet (very rare) , practically a cool guy to hang out with.
3. she very well agreed the 21'th day to meet me. we went in a park, she seemed so sweet and innocent at fist; the she asked me if we could step on the grass; i agreed; we started kissing; then the hard stuff begun; she went all over me; she started rubbing me, allowing me to put my hand on her butt, bitting her neck, and when (i always end the first date) i wanted to end the stuff (why ? : because i'm stupid ) she tried to grub my **** , and tried to make me lick her tits, :D.
3'. OK. This may seem like a 90% succes date; the girl is all over you trying to
make out with you as much as posible; BUT, for me, it's the first kind of girl like this.

4. Three days i didn't call, just SMS'd her once to met me again . She agreed. We met in the parc in the weekend . The same stuff. I grabbed her butt, kissing, sweet stuff, tolled me i'm her lover and she will never cheat on me, funny stuff like that! We had hun! THOUGH this time i didn't end the date , she ended it after 3 hours, cause her mom was waiting her !

5. Cool stuff. I never called her for 1 week, we just sms each other. PRACTICALLY , she sms'd me and 50% of times i answered the SMS (EX: her: "what do you do?" ME: " hei! picking up girls ! Miss you! :* ; that kind of stuff)... Now i sms'd her the next week, probably 3 times, trying to meet her , and she always said "OK", and two hours before (because i told her if she flakes to tell me 2 hours in advance) she flaked telling me she has her driving licence **** , practically started to play hard to get ! in the weekend she went to the mountains ! I SMS' her (SMS: " A HUG" ) , she responded (sexual SMS , which i didn't respond) and i called her : SHE said all the *****y stuff like "WHY DIDN'T YOU CALL" , "THE MAN HAS TO CALL", "WILL YOU WAIT FOR ME" , **** like that !

6. All being done, we met the next weekend , and I did the best ****y/funny routines on her i could imagine. I treated her like my bratty little sister and she all laughed and seemed to like the **** very well.
So while we were doing this , she called SOMEONE (SHE said it was her 30 year old GIRLFRIEND) and asked(HER/HIM) whether he/she would meet her this sunday :)D in front of me) to drink coffee :D . I of course acted ignorantly and never bother asking who she called . I even drove her to the MALL where she suposedly would meet this chick!

7. REMEMBER ! I called this giri very rarelly ! ONCE A WEEK MAX! the next week when i get online she was very upsey with all kinds of **** like:
a. You were looking at other girls while being with me
b. You never kissed me goodbye.
c. You're very rude and you never call mer; I'm sick calling you !

So she said why should i met you again !

8. After she said that before we met the 4-th time she became very flacky! AND with my stupidity i accepted that !
We met the 4-th time, we kissed and stuff, we made out but not as hot as in the first date. She ended the date of course, beause she GOT a SMS from who know's who and that's it!

9. Since then it's 1 MONTH ! We just chated on the IM and , all the CHATTING WAS STARTED BY her ! I played "WALK AWAY" ! 3 days ago i called her , she seemed HAPPY and stuff !

10. Friday i sent her an SMS tellling her i want her to meet me sunday , so she better not "REFUSE" me ! She said ok , we'll TALK ! :D

11. Today , SUNDAY , I ENTER THE IM , SHE CALLS ME , starts kissing me and **** , i ask her "WE GO OUT?" , she says "MY MOM DOESN'T LET ME" :)D she's 19 by the way) but she says when the first salary comes she will by me dinner and take me to the theatre ! AND SHE KISSES ME AND THAT's ALL!

I KNOW SHE'S MEETING OTHER GUYS ! SHE'S ON EVERY DATING SITE ON MY COUNTRY ! **** THAT ! BUT I LIKE HER !

I've BEEn COOL , never called to often ! Sometimes sweet !

What to make of THIS?
What to make of THIS?
What to make of THIS?
What to make of THIS?
What to make of THIS?

She is starting to flake ! WHAT TO DO ?
Yeah, it sucks when girls act like that. To be honest, I think she's losing attraction for you. I don't know ...
 
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