I can't seem to get a date for the life of me.

[Shootin4Dreams]

10/27/2015 11:25:22 PM
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Not one


10/28/2015 8:02:52 PM
Wow how long you been using it


10/28/2015 9:38:39 PM
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Couple weeks. How has your experience been?

10/29/2015 4:26:05 PM
Its been okay on a few dates. What you usually like to do for fun?

10/29/2015 5:23:10 PM
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Eat dance anything spontaneous

10/29/2015 6:12:21 PM
Salsa dancing you ever go club viva?

10/29/2015 9:51:40 PM
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Actually yes! They actually give lessons! I've been once- I had the time of my life



11/1/2015 10:52:20 AM

Yeah i havent been in a minute im gonna check it out again soon. Bet you did stumbling on yourself lol


11/1/2015 7:05:51 PM
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Yeah I sucked lol but it was fun!



11/1/2015 8:47:39 PM
Haha thats good. We should have a drink together this week. What nights you free?


11/1/2015 10:51:00 PM
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Tuesday or Wednesday sounds nice

11/2/2015 12:37:47 PM
Ok wensday night meet at applebees 7pm. Shoot me your number im name btw

she never replied back

what do I need to do obviously do like a game asking questions?

 

[Shootin4Dreams]

10/26/2015 8:10:39 PM
Hey how are you?

10/26/2015 11:01:08 PM
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I'm doing well...thank u for asking...how abt you?


10/27/2015 12:41:57 PM
Oh yeah, im doing pretty good myself. How has the site been treating you?

10/27/2015 11:36:41 PM
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lol it's been interesting to say the least...


10/28/2015 8:02:32 PM
Oh yeah been on any dates yet or alot of avoiding?


10/28/2015 10:57:21 PM
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I have been on a couple of dates....nice guys but they were not for me ...what about you..have you ever met anyone in person on here yet?


10/29/2015 4:25:12 PM
Yeah they didnt tickle ur fancy huh? Yeah i have been on a few. What you usually like to do for fun?

10/30/2015 1:50:44 AM
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lol anything competitive...but nowadays for me it is mostly work and not much play : (
However, it is a sacrifice. My life will be much different once I graduate in May...so I'm optimistic


11/1/2015 10:51:35 AM
Well thats no fun. True dat tho. What are you studying?

11/1/2015 6:31:27 PM
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Elementary Education


11/1/2015 7:15:45 PM
Yeah you gotta stay intuned with those. we should meetup and have a drink together sometime you game?

11/2/2015 8:27:31 PM
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I am


11/3/2015 6:22:42 PM
Okay cool lets exchange numbers ill shoot you a text

11/3/2015 7:59:46 PM
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Ok, whats your name again lol I'm sorry?


11/3/2015 8:41:43 PM
name

 

[Yewki]

You can't succeed without failure, keep trying

 

[Shootin4Dreams]

Why would they agree to dates then ignore me though? Did I do anything wrong?

 

[dustmuffin]

Don't say you don't have dates shows low value. Build more rappor before you ask got dAte

 

[NSX-R]

Getting dumped makes a man stronger. Jiraiya

 

[ubercat]

OLD is s a weird environment. I go in with the mindset that its for practicing your craft and trying different ideas to see what works for u. Think of it as a dating Lego set.

In your case yr messaging game needs work. So its an opportunity to fix that.

So bolt on the training wheels. Search here on the Craigslist thread and dozens of text game thread throw it into a spreadsheet paste and tweak. After a bit of this u ll start absorbing the patterns and mindset and be able to come up with yr own replies. I run about 25% canned now and often have chicks saying I m charming or smooth. Its always raining soup put your bowl out.

 

[3agle 3yes]

You're coming across as boring op, nothing exciting, nothing out of the ordinary.

To get dates online you have to exaggerate your flirting.

Comment on a woman's picture and guess her age (even if it's on her profile) and always guess WAY off.

Ask her "What's wrong with you? Why can't you get a normal date like a normal person in the real world?"

If the conversion is going well ask her to show you pictures of herself, because you think she's a man. If she does always comment about something wrong with the picture in a funny way, for example if she's in a picture with two other women who are taller than her, tell her you don't date short women etc, and if she wants some of you, go on google and send her pictures of obese men sat on a computer and tell ", if she doesn't be overtly suspicious of her.

When a conversation with a woman is going well GET HER ON THE PHONE asap.

Don't just tell her "let's talk on the phone".

Say "Let's talk like normal people, you know, like on the telephone".

Or "Your typing too slow, let's talk like normal people".

There's way more to it of course and the internet is full of resources.

 

[dustmuffin]

I was on tinder and this pig sent me her pic via text...she said she couldnt upload her pic so I gave her my number...pig....I didnt respond so she calls me on the phone....ugh

 

[Shootin4Dreams]

Well dude i really got barely any unique different ****y funny comments to make to girls. How the hell am i supposed to learn?
I started playing this game i found online would u rather and ask a bunch of random questions seems to work okay. How do i internally develop this? I didnt have a whole lot of social life growing up with the kind of people. I am literally ground zero developing my skills

 

[dustmuffin]

Well dude i really got barely any unique different ****y funny comments to make to girls. How the hell am i supposed to learn?
I started playing this game i found online would u rather and ask a bunch of random questions seems to work okay. How do i internally develop this? I didnt have a whole lot of social life growing up with the kind of people. I am literally ground zero developing my skills

Just keep working on it. You will get better and learn to think on your feet. It takes time. When I was your age I had a quick mind and could flirt up a storm. After 22 years of marriage my brain is numb. So I am in the same boat. I am rebuilding my skills. Just don't be hard on yourself. Keep trying it will come. Slow down your speaking....body language so you don't seem nervous. You will do it
Be patient. Just keep talking to girls!

 

[ubercat]

Facebook has an interview app. It will ask you lots of questions - you could use it. But since OLD chicks love attention that's the best place to practice your messaging. But you really shouldn't be giving straight answers.

As for specific lines just google on "pua good text lines" and you'll get pages of them. If you can't be bothered spending a couple of hours doing some collecting - canned material aint for you. In that case, get online and wing it.

 

[Shootin4Dreams]

So whats the problem giving straight answers it doesnt build attraction? How do i convert my mentality to never give straight answers to anyone? Just start becoming sacastic all the time never be serious give straight answers?

 

[Maximus Rex]

The next time you're hollerin' at a broad do this. At the height of the conversation, invite her to go to Starbucks, Cold Stone, Subways, a nearby bar etc. If she agrees, guess what? You're a date and act accordingly.

 

[ubercat]

Think of it like cooking. Your negs, ignoring questions, changing topics, giving absurd answers, etc r the spice. They communicate that you have social skills that you get it.

Of course you should have a straight conversation as well. But that conversation should be focused on how she feels. But without the spice the meal is boring.

You've got to remember that chicks get hit on all the time. So if you say how's it going sexy - she's probably heard that 50 times before of course she will be bored.

And now for the old guy rant. How the hell do you young guys think that you're going to get instant results without some preparation and training.

If you want a gym body you go and get an evaluation you make a plan, find exercises that r best for you, to get into understanding nutrition.

So learn something then go try it and repeat. Girls aren't so rare and special. They r going to ask you the same stupid s*** test questions just about every time.

If you don't go do some work you will be posting your unhappiness here forever .

You re young you've got all the potential in the world go get em