"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I Can't Remeber Her Name........

Kalel21

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hey guys,

I have a bit of a problem,

Yesterday I managed to get this chicks number at the market place.

I want to call her. there is one problem

I cant remember her name.

What do i do?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

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DJDamage

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Tell her that when you were little, kids often made fun of your name because it rhymed and asked her if anyone had ever made fun of her name.

Or have her meet you in a bar and have one of your friends just "passing by", he would introduce himself and ask her for her name.
 

Cashew

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Call her a nickname like "cutie" or something until you figure it out, in which case you can't completely stop using the nickname at that point.

I remember waking up one morning about a year ago next to a girl at her place and had no idea who she was. I went to the bathroom to be able to look for something with her name on it, found a magazine addressed to Natalie. Turns out Natalie was her roommate. Oops!
 
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