"I cant love/trust the way I loved/trusted my first love"- Women

[ManManMan]

So my friend's gf used to say this to me after her first breakup..I was trying to set her up with my friend by helping her let go of her insecurities and making her forget her ex.

I was succesful, ofc.

But she used to say stuff like this sometimes while I was trying to convince her..But all this was like 6 months ago..so its all cool now I guess :\


My friend and her just completed their One Month and I got treated out to a nice dinner & drinks though.

Sometimes I worry about him, if he really is going in too deep for her, and she doesnt have enough feelings etc.



PS:1. She was the dumper.
2. The current relationship is on "I love you" 5 times a day stage, with frequent making out and 2nd base I guess



Your comments?

 

[ManManMan]

Can I trust her not to screw up my friend..that is the question.

I dont want to see this relationship ending up in an oneitis mode and hurting my friend. Because I might get locked up in jail.......for killing that fine woman >.<





The History isnt much:
First relationship for both of them
Still virgins [This is India, 90% of population is virgin till marriage, no jokes/sarcasm please]
LDR [**** yes ]
Girl used to imagine 'future' with ex
Lasted for 6-8 months. Girl dumped him, "too many fights" being the reason :\

 

[ManManMan]

some more opinions would be great.

 

[backbreaker]

it's like if i have a client who keeps telling me well i hired someone to do something for me in the past and they screwed me over... you know what buddy.. that's not my problem that you have ****ty vetting process. you then double down on having a ****ty vetting process by taking your results of your ****ty vetting process on everyone else you come in contact with.


that's just laziness on two levels. I'm auto out on all clients that say **** like that. people get ****ed over or run into bad people, but it's how you handle it that tells you the metal of a person. That is the definition of baggage and if i were your friend i would want out

 

[ManManMan]

(y)
Imma qoute exactly what you said! Amazing.

 

[Alvafe]

I wouldn't help him that way, only way as a friend you can help is take him out and have fun without thinking on his ex and possible find one girl to at least make out that night.

its trick you get in teh mid of all, but right now truth be told is nothing is sure, if you can trust her to not mess up now you tell me its you who knows the whole history, but for flat conviction you can never really trust anyone. only thing you can do is hope for the best and work for it to happen, but here is the deal its not your issue, so you can't do anything anymore.

 

[TheWolfMan]

I fully agree to avoid women with a "history", they are a lost cause trust me. I made the mistake of falling for one and it sucks, you are constantly getting compared to her past guys. She had previously been engaged to and had an abortion with some dude, she has a lot of baggage. This is the type of girl who goes through guys like water. I was delusional to think that I could change her or that I was different than the rest. In reality I was just another number to her and I ended up hurt. My main point is that women like this are no good, and you already have a disadvantage from the start due to the fact that she wants to find someone to fill the whole left by her past boyfriends.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Despite their "independant,strong,woman" bvllsh1t they didnt change much from the past, they just have a bigger ego than before due to favouritism and constant attention but deep down they still develop feelings for man (top men) and get hurt when dumped.

What you guys have to keep in mind is that the more a girl bonded with someone(cause they do when they bang a guy which the desire), the more they will be able to do it with others.

Its not a matter of territory only, its simply your male gut (the ones who doesnt give a fvck about political correctness) telling you that you're betting on the wrong horse.

When it comes of joy of life, bonding attitude and nurturing/caring capacities the fresher/younger a girl the better.
The less experiences she had, the more open she will be toward you.

Beware of alpha windows as rollo calls them, those women who had the chance to stay with a top alpha and that no matter what you do, you will always be second place for them, if he was banging them ass2mouth you would not even be considered worth a bl0wjob.

So yeah lets aboid damaged goods, maybe they will find out that they will be accountable for their stupid choices as much as a lazy guy who doesnt leave home.

 

[LiveFreeX]

When it comes of joy of life, bonding attitude and nurturing/caring capacities the fresher/younger a girl the better.
The less experiences she had, the more open she will be toward you.

This is absolutely true. Virgins bond like super glue..