i can't get them to come over

[regulus]

what is the secret behind this. i never thoguh i would have so many problems getting them to come over. they don't trust me, not even the ones i've known for months. i never had this problem when i was an afc.

it's not like i act like a pervert or anything. maybe i just appear too confident. ironically when i had low confidence they felt secure around me but now that i have high confidence they act like i'm a threat. they still stick around and talk to me but it's just not like it used to be. it's like they're waiting for me to try something (not in a good way). what's the point of having female friends that trust you as much as they trust a stranger? if that's the case, why have female friends at all?

 

[Julian]

Your speaking of these females as if they knew you before in your AFC days. Maybe they are wierded out by this sudden change in your behavior and dont know what to think. Chances are your trying to bang girls that have put you in the friend zone already.

 

[regulus]

Originally posted by Julian
Your speaking of these females as if they knew you before in your AFC days. Maybe they are wierded out by this sudden change in your behavior and dont know what to think. Chances are your trying to bang girls that have put you in the friend zone already.

actually i don't even speak to the females i knew in my afc days. they're out doing things fat sluts do. they're all gaining huge amounts of weight and now i don't really care if i don't have their attention. i stopped letting my d|ck make decisions for me and now i pick girls who appeal to intellectually too. I finallty met a seemingly high quality chick who i want to take to the next level. the problem is that i can't isolate her. she seems plenty intersted in public but doesn't want to talk much except for when i visit her job and we'll talk for an hr+. she drops whatever she's doing to talk to me. there is evidence of third party tampering though.

look for my thread about the cold war.

 

[violator]

It could be one of several reasons:

1. She is currently committed to someone but does not want to tell you straight out ( signs of attention wh0re behavior). She leads you on but doesn't want to take it to the next level.

2. She does not see you anymore than just a friend so she does not want you to think otherwise. A girl knows that isolating her in a private place especially someone's abode amounts to eventual intimate contact.

3. You are giving off a desperation vibe that is scaring her away.

4. You have not establishe enough rapport for her to trust you yet. (in this case, it can be good because it shows she is not an easy slut).

 

[Ded_Skin_Mask13]

if you haven't gone out on a date with her/them then that could be your prob.

You've got to know someone somewhat well to invite them to your home in the first place and same applies for them.

And you need to relax about the sex man. The harder you try the more time you'll be without any. Just relax, be patient, do your math, play your cards right and let everything fall into place.

There's a time for everything.