I Can't Get Over This Break Up, She's Serious This Time

[Plain & Simple]

As some of yall know my girl of 1 yr and a month dumped me, she never said we done or nothing along those lines she acused me of cheating which i never did, and i talked to her and for a few days we was good, then a few days later she bought it back up and i said "this aint gonna work" before i finished the line she just said "yeah it aint cause u cheating so ill see u around" then she hung up on me, since then we aint talk.

It was thru my hairdresser, she inform me that she told her that we was done and i thought she was just mad.
I went to her door and left roses a teddy bear a 4 foot car and some candy, like 2 days ago she still aint call back.

Which makes me believe that this is really the end.

I mean i followed the advice in the other thread i made but the thing is that, i cant seem to get over her yet, specially being dumped over something that i didnt do, sometimes i feel good other times i feel like "dang right now i would be with her, or fukin her or on the phone wit her, etc..." for some reason the moornings and nights beofre i go to bed are the hardest parts .

I mean i have gotten 4 phone numbers in a week (since the break) but i still dont feel good.

Any tips in how to overcome a break up, ive tried hanging out with friends being busy and getting other girls , and thats all fine but there is still that empty spot....

dang.

 

[MackJr]

I'll pretend that this is a real post for a moment.

I was obsessing about work a lot. Various problems. It didn't stop until I gave my mind something else to do. I read some books and got some time away, then I started work on something else, and it stopped.

You have to cut new neuro-pathways, and the only way to do that is to think about something else.

 

[DonJuanMonk]

talking about it like what you're doing helps. go to chatrooms dude, don't do this shat in the dj forums. it'll be over, give it a couple months.

 

[Plain & Simple]

yeh i know this helps thats why i do it, it kinda relieves some of the pain away, ive tried not to talk to my friends about it too much cause i dont want them to know that im actually really fuked up over this, cause im known as the "hard guy" but like i said, this time it seems like she is serious and it has really gotten to me, at times im good, other times im down

 

[DonJuanMonk]

1. download an irc chat client like mirc
2. go to random chatroom where there's people
3. post a random "god damn i broke up with my biatch"
4. ???
5. profit