i cant get over one girl..

[naes420]

theres one girl i realy realy have liked for along time we used to be realy going at it for the longest time until i started fuking my life up with juvie/dirty uashe always told me to quit now she fuking hates me cause i wont quit and **** and says it changed me....but the thing is i have tryed to get over her for the longest time...i have fuked proabbly 2 girls since then but i still cant get over her and yet she hates me...ive rejected probably 10+ girls in the hopes of her even though i know that the chances now of me getting her arent gonna be high unless i change which i absoulty wont do.......i mean hell i dont know what to do no matter what i do i cant get over her...WHAT MORE CAN I DO !! i mean realy...its becoming a huge problem in my life and i cant just act like its normal anymore

 

[navyseal2101]

Well have you straightened your life out? I don't mean you have to change yourself, definatly don't do that, but nobody NEEDS drugs, they only hurt you really. Change not who you are but what you do, I think that may be the problem she has with you. As for getting over her, I would have gotten with those 10 other girls. Usually 2 isn't enough, and dont just do random people, find other people you connect with, its alot stronger that way. Ill stay watching this thread to se what others say and see if I can help anymore. Good luck though!

 

[Axcell]

Read the DJ bible, it tells you some things you can do to stop thinking about this girl. I forget the term the bible uses, I read it too long ago to remember, I believe it's called "oneitis" or something close to that.

Anywho - do activities to get your mind off her. You don't need to go out with another girl, just spend some time around with DIFFERENT girls, meet NEW girls. Look, I know it may seem REALLY hard to get this girl off your mind, but instead of spending time moping around about how much you miss this girl, grow up, get some balls, and put your mind on other activities. You are only 17, did you expect to marry this girl or something? Cmon! Girls come and go, suck it up, and move onto another girl.

When I broke up with my girlfriend, I started working out and playing a lot of basketball with guys I knew. Try doing some physical activities - they tend to work the best.

Best of luck.

 

[naes420]

Read the DJ bible, it tells you some things you can do to stop thinking about this girl. I forget the term the bible uses, I read it too long ago to remember, I believe it's called "oneitis" or something close to that.

Anywho - do activities to get your mind off her. You don't need to go out with another girl, just spend some time around with DIFFERENT girls, meet NEW girls. Look, I know it may seem REALLY hard to get this girl off your mind, but instead of spending time moping around about how much you miss this girl, grow up, get some balls, and put your mind on other activities. You are only 17, did you expect to marry this girl or something? Cmon! Girls come and go, suck it up, and move onto another girl.

When I broke up with my girlfriend, I started working out and playing a lot of basketball with guys I knew. Try doing some physical activities - they tend to work the best.

Best of luck.

i am trying to spend time around diiferent girls i have but **** just reminds me of her too read my thing again man..i nvr spend my time moping around execpt today cause im on the internet and **** i have no problem with getting women at all thats not my problem here it is this girl man

and so for other one yes i shuld have but i cant because i keep having this shred of doubt that i can still have a chance and **** with her but no way im gonna give up my life for one person like she wants because im no ones dog ***** bros before hoes :]]

 

[KontrollerX]

Isn't there a way you could go about hiding your lifestyle from her?

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

You shouldnt have to change your ways to get a girl to like you. If she cannot accept you for who you are and what you do. Then, who cares man. If you do drugs around her and she don't like it. Do it somewhere when shes not around. But, you really should just go out meet more girls. I bet you will find a better lookn girl who you will like even more.

 

[naes420]

no i cant hide my lifestyle and i already said i wont fuking change it

but yeh i can meet girls i can practicly get any girl i want man ive had so many chances but just this girll man sometimes i wish i could just kill her and never have to think about her again