chickenlegs03
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Don't tell me to "read the bible," to "do approaches" or that crap...I've done it all. I'm not some wuss who just found this site. I've been here far too long to even post such a desperate question.
Well, not exactly...but at least for the past 3.5 months, and counting. Since I moved to a new town in Northern California, about 3.5 months ago, I have not as much as touched a girl. My biggest obstacle is not noticing one girl who is attracted to me.
I don't know what it was, but girls used to smile at me all the time, wave at me, even say "hello" and initiate conversation without even knowing me. I also did initiate things myself many times.
Unfortunately, this played into my ego a lot, and when I first moved here it was really frustrating when absolutely no girls checked me out and I felt like I was purposely being ignored. I got over that and realized ego is stupid, so I don't care any more, but girls here still seem snobbish, and haughty, and seldom receptive to conversation. Even ugly fat girls don't look my way. I mean, I am seriously starting to wonder what is going on?
When I was in Southern California, it seemed girls were much more open, and not "embarrassed" as it seems here, about their sexual desires. I visited SoCal about two weeks ago, and I noticed exactly the opposite of this. You can chat up girls in the grocery store, at the bus stop...it's normal and they don't look at you like you're trying to steal their money or something. It's almost as if the girls in my town have their b!tch shields as high as the wall of China before I even open my mouth.
I am seriously contemplating moving down South sometime in the near future because...sure, the pleasures of my life are not determined by pvssy, but I don't want getting pvssy to be such a stress or effort when I could be missing out on it elsewhere. And I have a busy life...I really don't have time to "think" about how to get laid. I am a confident (and perhaps attractive) man...with pretty darn good social skills, a well-paying job, fun personality i'd say, and tons of extras, lol...damnit, I should be getting laid anyway. (and I'm in college, gosh)
Am I really wrong here? Is unwavering eye contact, smiling, waving...body language...are those not all universal tell-tale signs that someone likes you? And if so, how the heck have I not noticed one girl do that in the last 3 freaking months of living here?
Sure I initiate conversation just for sake of conversation also. Lots of times, with lots of different people. And I'm not going to just try to "get into a girls pants" or con her with any methods of seduction. I've never had to do any of that crap...
...I've just found it mind-boggling that I've gone from girls being all over me, literally, to girls not even looking at me. It really seems like the girls here dress really sexy to impress guys, but when you go talk to them, they act asexual, and soo boring without any personality, like they're being forced to talk to you.
Well, not exactly...but at least for the past 3.5 months, and counting. Since I moved to a new town in Northern California, about 3.5 months ago, I have not as much as touched a girl. My biggest obstacle is not noticing one girl who is attracted to me.
I don't know what it was, but girls used to smile at me all the time, wave at me, even say "hello" and initiate conversation without even knowing me. I also did initiate things myself many times.
Unfortunately, this played into my ego a lot, and when I first moved here it was really frustrating when absolutely no girls checked me out and I felt like I was purposely being ignored. I got over that and realized ego is stupid, so I don't care any more, but girls here still seem snobbish, and haughty, and seldom receptive to conversation. Even ugly fat girls don't look my way. I mean, I am seriously starting to wonder what is going on?
When I was in Southern California, it seemed girls were much more open, and not "embarrassed" as it seems here, about their sexual desires. I visited SoCal about two weeks ago, and I noticed exactly the opposite of this. You can chat up girls in the grocery store, at the bus stop...it's normal and they don't look at you like you're trying to steal their money or something. It's almost as if the girls in my town have their b!tch shields as high as the wall of China before I even open my mouth.
I am seriously contemplating moving down South sometime in the near future because...sure, the pleasures of my life are not determined by pvssy, but I don't want getting pvssy to be such a stress or effort when I could be missing out on it elsewhere. And I have a busy life...I really don't have time to "think" about how to get laid. I am a confident (and perhaps attractive) man...with pretty darn good social skills, a well-paying job, fun personality i'd say, and tons of extras, lol...damnit, I should be getting laid anyway. (and I'm in college, gosh)
Am I really wrong here? Is unwavering eye contact, smiling, waving...body language...are those not all universal tell-tale signs that someone likes you? And if so, how the heck have I not noticed one girl do that in the last 3 freaking months of living here?
Sure I initiate conversation just for sake of conversation also. Lots of times, with lots of different people. And I'm not going to just try to "get into a girls pants" or con her with any methods of seduction. I've never had to do any of that crap...
...I've just found it mind-boggling that I've gone from girls being all over me, literally, to girls not even looking at me. It really seems like the girls here dress really sexy to impress guys, but when you go talk to them, they act asexual, and soo boring without any personality, like they're being forced to talk to you.