"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I can't figured what I can do to get this girl.

frank17

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Hi,
A few weeks ago I posted that I was trying to figure out if this girl at work liked me or not...well I still haven't figure out, but I don't think that matters. The thing is this... I will try to break it down.
Ok I see this work every weekend, and when we are working.. I used to be pretty funny always having fun.. however lately its like I somehow ignore her... so she thinks that I'm mad at her when I'm not. Anyway like a week ago at work there was this guy X( a friend of mine) was talking to the girl I like G and was bagging the stuff ( I work in a supermarket by the way) so in a joking way I said " Hey X I don't want to see you too close to her alright...I don't like that" so she laughed and so did I. Later that day this girl A called me because she needed help so I when I was helping her she was grabing my hand.. and G said " Hey A please don't touch my man.. he is mine" A she plays around saying that I'm the daddy of her baby, so she calls me her "baby daddy".
Well then G started blowing me kisses and saying that she loved me and stuff.. and still she does everytime she sees me, and she started touching me. Anyway bottom line.. I know that she is playing around, but I know almost for a fact that she likes me, I can see it in her eyes. So how can I turn that game around and ask her out. As you can tell I'm a very unexperienced guy. sorry if you don't understand what I'm asking, but its hard to explain.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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frank17

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Well I do have her number and since she works on weekends and so do I.. its hard to go out. And when I do ask her to go some where she just makes excuses.. which are true.. so thats the bad part. And sometimes that I have the time I just don't know where I could go you know.. Any ideas of what should I do?
 
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