"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i can't figure what she thinks

sbgm

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Hellu!
This girl I am kinda into, we are in the same class and so on. I fool around with her, use kino and with an ironically sits veru close to her. This week she had been commenting on that. She said: "Oh, who's the one that always want to sit close to a girl", "You're so lost", "You are so annoying"

How should I take/translate this? What should I do? Advance, or retreat to a more friendly stage for a while?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ChrizZ

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Trust your instincts. It´s impossible for us to tell you if she likes you or not. Don´t think about what she says, think about how she says it and what kind of bodylanguage she uses.

It can either mean: "Get the fvck away from me you creep" or "I like you, but you gotta ask me out"
 
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