"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I cant *** during sex

noviceplaya

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I cant come during sex?
My girlfriend is very attractive but i cant seem to come....ive been with 6 girls and the last one was a virgin and i almost came wen i was with her,and i experienced blue balls with her.I can come wen i "beat my meat" but cant during sex.....wat could be the problem and how can i get a stronger erection?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ice Cold

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Maybe you're squeezing your d1ck way too tight when you're jerking off?

Have her get on top... that will tighten her ***** and make it easier for you.

And don't jerk off when you're not with her. If you don't come, she'll develop deep rooted insecurity and massive chafing.

The first guy is a big influence on her later sex life, so do it right.
 

md3sign

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try not beating it for a week or having sex with her for a week. then see if the same thing happens.

and you use protection right?
 

BluEyes

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Don't jerk.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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noviceplaya

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yea i used protection....but is there anything i can do now to have a stronger erection?
 

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noviceplaya said:
yea i used protection....but is there anything i can do now to have a stronger erection?
Kegels!
 

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The more you beat it, the longer it takes when somebody else is doing it for you.
 

shaunuk

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Yeah, this advice is all dead on. If I jack off the morning or even the night before I have sex, my likelihood of getting off is dramatically reduced. When you're not getting any, don't jack off. Give that 7 days and you'll be blowing one out in 2 minutes :up:

-shaun
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Skilla_Staz

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It's true...
 

ryannath

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Is she loose? When I have sex with a loose pvssy I can't ***, and I also use condoms and that doesn't help things. And, you might be jerking it too much. Maybe even try a thiner condom. They make them. Or, maybe one with warming sensation.
 
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