"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I can't decide!!!

thederekeffect1

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So, recently this girl confessed to me that she has liked me for the longest time (yeah, right. she started liking me when I started playing hard to get and realized I had a different girl every 3 or 4 days. whenever I have the TIME to pick up women).

She's probably a HB8. She has an interesting personality. But I've become so disgusted by her past. She even admits the orgy's she's been a part of. And considering the dudes she's ****ed I'm pretty sure she has a disease of some sort.

Now, she's going to call around 10 or 11. She's going to make plans for us to hang out later tonight. It's pretty much a booty call. I've got her to the point where shes wanting me bad.

The thing is, I don't even know if I want to **** her. I've never met a woman that has had... well, so many sexual adventures with so many different guys (and chicks). and like I said, I'm sure atleast one of them had a disease. To the point where I was actually a little distgusted. To the point where thinking of ****ing her is like putting my **** in a puddle of freshly layed down concrete.

Of course, I could always wear 2 condoms instead of one... Or 7.

Okay, I think I answered my own question. New question:

How the hell am I going to blow her off and tell her I want nothing to do with her when I've been leading her on this whole time?

... I've never actually had to turn down a girl that I've been working on...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Evangenlion

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Around here, the impression they try to give you is to try and lay as many good looking girls as possible.

However, that is wrong.
I've had to turn down many many many girls in my short life time.
Okay so it didn't help my score record, but that doesn't matter.

IF looks was the basis of getting laid only then your in for a suprise.

looks doesn't equal intelligence
looks doesn't equal charm or eliquence(sp?)
looks doesn't equal to humour.
looks doesn't tell you if she cliggy, annoying or attention whoring.
looks doesn't tell you if she's got aids, or any other sexually transmitted things
looks doesn't help your social proof if she has a bad rep and will bring you down with her.

think about her as a whole. and then decide what to do with her.
you can lay her if u want, man i'm not against it and as long as you use a condom (which is still not 100%)

Now stop being a wuss, tell her "NO i won't **** u". it might feel bad when u do it, but you'll be happier in the long run. she may just tell everyone your gay, but hey your a man and should know how to handle that situation.
 

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LOL bang her hard, and then say, "i think of you more as my mother, you know, i had a tough childhood, and all your traits that i love remind me of a mother that i wish i had, and have now, would you be my mother, mom?"
 

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You should be act all AFCish with her. Bring her flowers, call her 156 times a day, blurt out you undying love for her... that or just say no thanks and LJBF her.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Desdinova

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There's nothing wrong with turning down a woman. If you don't want to fvck her, don't. Fvcking her isn't going to give you any kind of advantage.

Being picky is going to make you a more valuable man. Women will begin to wonder if they're of high enough quality to spend time with you. Rejecting the occasional one will make you respectable, even a bit mysterious.
 

thederekeffect1

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You guys are awesome. I especially like ICaughtFire and Aisujin's advice.

I just went with holding her off for another day. I told her that I had to work late (I actually got off early lol) so I couldn't make it.

I think I'll use ICaughtFires advice tommorow. haha
 
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