I can't believe you guys banned PK.

[sazc]

I agree with @ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Given your history, she had to know this was on it's way. You would think she would be prepared to honor your situation. I'm sure she did what women do, hang on the idea that she was going to change you, change how you thought. Delusions. It's too bad all around.

 

[Infern0]

I don't want to make this another "why did you ban" Poon King thread.

But let me tell you, my girlfriend of 10 years just broke up with me because she wanted to get married (she is 37) and I told her OK, diamond ring OK, wedding OK. But you have sign something that if we get divorced, you can't come after the family company, like a prenuptial agreement. Well let me tell you, she absolutely destroyed me in an email, made it extremely personal and told me to go to hell. 10 years thrown away just like that. Down the drain because I didn't do things on her terms. Last 2 nights I've been pretty upset and lost sleep.

Ive printed most of his posts and re-read them again. Without his knowledge and wisdom, I would have emailed her back and asked for forgiveness and gave her anything she wanted to get married. I'm still a bit upset but I keep reading his posts to understand female behaviour and try to man up.

I know rules are rules and he got banned for attacking others and calling people names, but mods have to understand he was really here to HELP men win the game. Without his words, I would absolutely be lost, and likely homeless and penniless within 5 years.

You already did.

Let it go man, you dont need him to tell you how to live your life

 

[Trump]

But tell me though, what is it that made her so valuable to you that you spent 10 years together?

Convenience. Lack of options. Got along well.

And what value did you provide her that made her spend 10 years with you?

Guess I bought her a lot of things. She got along well with me too.

And was she related to you finding out about SoSuave and other stuff?

No.


Granted I could have been more tactful and explained myself better, but I don't think that would have changed the result. In any event, your guys posts have helped. It's calmed me down a bit.

 

[RalphaWreck]

No but she knows the story why I said it. My brother didn't have one and he killed himself after 3 years of marriage because his wife pressured and intimated him, and hid his prescription pills. His wife was ecstatic when he died. She took all his money, assets, condos, cars, credit cards and clothes. Didn't speak at his funeral and told our family to go to hell. She remarried maybe a few months later with all his money and assets in place.

.....And you wish to go through this too. Your fiance should have expected you to request a prenuptial. End of story.

 

[dude99]

That's my feeling. If she has much of an issue with it, we are not marrying for love and family and kids.



Perhaps. But I don't look at this as my issue.



Possibly. Several years ago I mentioned I wouldn't marry without one. She said 'wow, no girl would marry you.'



No I told her over the phone 'Diamond ring OK. Expensive Wedding OK. But you'll have to sign if we divorce you can't come after the Company.'



If she did, she didn't care by her email.



This is what's causing me the most grief. I blamed myself instead. I think if I blamed anyone else and she acted this way, I would be maybe 10% disturbed than what I am going through now.



Possibly. She asked 'what do I get if we get divorced?'



No but she knows the story why I said it. My brother didn't have one and he killed himself after 3 years of marriage because his wife pressured and intimated him, and hid his prescription pills. His wife was ecstatic when he died. She took all his money, assets, condos, cars, credit cards and clothes. Didn't speak at his funeral and told our family to go to hell. She remarried maybe a few months later with all his money and assets in place.

I'm not going through that.

Are you sure your brother committed suicide? Her behaviour sounds like a woman who had a "plan," if you know what i mean

 

[KingBeef]

I don't want to make this another "why did you ban" Poon King thread.

But let me tell you, my girlfriend of 10 years just broke up with me because she wanted to get married (she is 37) and I told her OK, diamond ring OK, wedding OK. But you have sign something that if we get divorced, you can't come after the family company, like a prenuptial agreement. Well let me tell you, she absolutely destroyed me in an email, made it extremely personal and told me to go to hell. 10 years thrown away just like that. Down the drain because I didn't do things on her terms. Last 2 nights I've been pretty upset and lost sleep.

Ive printed most of his posts and re-read them again. Without his knowledge and wisdom, I would have emailed her back and asked for forgiveness and gave her anything she wanted to get married. I'm still a bit upset but I keep reading his posts to understand female behaviour and try to man up.

I know rules are rules and he got banned for attacking others and calling people names, but mods have to understand he was really here to HELP men win the game. Without his words, I would absolutely be lost, and likely homeless and penniless within 5 years.

I'm sorry to hear that man....

BUT I THINK YOU DID THE RIGHT THING. FOR HER TO ACT OUT LIKE THAT OVER YOU PROTECTING YOUR FINANCIAL FUTURE IS INSANE. IMO, YOU SAVED YOURSELF FROM HELL. YOU CAN ALWAYS REPLACE HER.....

 

[kronreiff]

In my opinion, the damage is already done. How can you trust her after such an outburst of BS and nonsense after 10 years? When women get that angry, they expose their real self. And that she did. I'd drop her like a screwed up plate. No matter what she says or does now, the mask came off and you saw the real her. Be glad she fvcked up and saved you tons of BS down the road. Hit the gym, heal up and move on. You dodged the bullet of misery.

 

[nismo-4]

To add a bit more, don't be surprised if she comes back in two weeks, feeling you out.

"I am so sorry I got so upset, but when you told me that, I just FELT like you didn't love me, and blah, blah, blah"

All to see if you have weakened your stance.

Your reply should simply be " Sorry to hear that, but I am already dating some else. Goodbye"

Hey Trump, I feel for you. 10 years down the drain, but consider the alternative. She wanted that payday on her terms. You denied her (the right thing to do) and she went into a tizzy. You saw her true colors. Your life is much better without her.

Sometimes God removes a person out of your life for a very good reason. Don't run after them.

You'll find someone better, and you can.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Sometimes God removes a person out of your life for a very good reason. Don't run after them.

You'll find someone better, and you can.

When did you get religious all of a sudden?

 

[hockeyfreak79]

10yrs damn Trump. Did y'all even live together? Did you have to kick or out or did she just leave?