silenthill
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i probably am one of the biggest afcs. i danced with the blonde at the party and she kept grabbing onto my arm and stuff and i didn't do ****. oh well
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I can't believe what just happened
- Thread starter silenthill
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
If you are not a mythomaniac, you are definitely a lucky SOB. You know many people would kill to have the opportunities you had. Knowing what to do is important, but having great opportunities like these without even trying, this is just golden!silenthill said:
Go buy a lottery ticket, I'm pretty sure you will win.
Dude, pretty strong IOI, especially if repeated. Plus, as was said before, they did invite you to the party, and you stayed sober and were responsible with your designated driver role.silenthill said:
As others have said, make a move next time with the blonde or whichever girl you like at the time. I mean, if you get rejected, no biggie, you just move on. Plus, they have a lot more to lose in this situation since they are probably partly using you for the transportation. You walk, they need to find some other poor schmuck to bum rides off of, thats the worst that can happen for you.
Good luck man.
skip2mylou781
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arglebargle said:
YES its possible really that these russians r tied to the russian mafia and got somethin up their sleeve - i kno this cuz im russian myself.
u got 2 choices - b a ***** AFC whos afraid that ur gonna get hurt Hostel style and never see those girls again...
or
be a MAN and come over with some vodka (get someone older to buy it for u), and ****in go gunwitch on their asses and **** the hell out of both of them!!!
its either a)their settin u up to kill u or b)they wanna have a 3some with u
all up to u chump!
skip2mylou781
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ok i just got it....this is an AFC who lucked out, just the fact that he didnt take advantage of the situation given to him, he will REGRET it and LEARN from it, im sorry for you, i wish u got my advice before goin to that party
ever heard of "its 6am and im real tired, can i just crash at ur place girls?"
golden line that coulda gotten u laid after the party!
ever heard of "its 6am and im real tired, can i just crash at ur place girls?"
golden line that coulda gotten u laid after the party!
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
pooparu
Senior Don Juan
Skip, read down it wasn't two girls, there are SEVEN that live in that house. He went to a party with FOUR of them. They were all DRUNK.
This doesn't compute in my mind.
This doesn't compute in my mind.
skip2mylou781
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"im soo tired, lemme crash at ur place" - drunk girls wont say no to that under those circumstances, its AFC to just drop them off and NOT EVEN TRY
pooparu
Senior Don Juan
Lol yea, I'm talking about it not computing that he didn't go for one of four drunk girls orr one of 7 girls. That all told him to not only come to their hosue but got him inside to pick them up (as far as I can tell).
MightyMate
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They used him for home drive. But also if he had more confidence they might use him for sex. He was just too shy and havent ask 'can i step in?' or 'let me take Your baggages'. Havin in night 2 lil bit drunk girls and beein at her home rocks. Dunno why did You want phone number. This was 1 night stand.
AngelusPUA
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What do you think his chances are? He hasn't slept with them yet but they have gotten 2 lifts off him...
He is getting used and if he hasn't slept with them yet he won't be doing so anytime soon.
He is getting used and if he hasn't slept with them yet he won't be doing so anytime soon.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Well, good on you for not getting stabbed right there in the car. But think about it, if these chicks were so horny for it, why didn't they invite you up right there and then.
And they have no phones or e-mail? Anytime I applied for any job, you had to have some kind of contact other than an address! Everyone's got a damn cell these days anyway!
Anyways if you do go back there you'll either get asked for cash, ripped off, or most likely - as soon as you arrive they'll "need" to suddenly go somewhere (and guess who's driving).
And they have no phones or e-mail? Anytime I applied for any job, you had to have some kind of contact other than an address! Everyone's got a damn cell these days anyway!
Anyways if you do go back there you'll either get asked for cash, ripped off, or most likely - as soon as you arrive they'll "need" to suddenly go somewhere (and guess who's driving).
qweretyuiopas
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I swear man you are killing US and we arent even there. Please make a move, if not for your sake than for our sakes lmao