"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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vagrant

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most of you guys are over the 20s and are very much expert at many different ball game. i got this problem. i used a colgate shaving cream that was maybe hundred years ago that i found in our bathroom and my skin turned black...i f*ckin hate it...UGH!!!...had anyone had that problem before?!?!?!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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No, sorry; how long has it been that way? I take it you arent using that cream any more! If you are, STOP! Phone Colgate and say what has happened, and if they dont help you then phone a dermatologist.
 

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CrunchyNut said:
No, sorry; how long has it been that way? I take it you arent using that cream any more! If you are, STOP! Phone Colgate and say what has happened, and if they dont help you then phone a dermatologist.
thanks dude...i'll try making some calls right away...i actually used some lotion and kind of helped a little though i'm afraid this sh*t will be permanent. sorry if i'm makin this site look bad with all this non relevant questions...just don't know where to turn to...peace!~
 

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vagrant said:
most of you guys are over the 20s and are very much expert at many different ball game. i got this problem. i used a colgate shaving cream that was maybe hundred years ago that i found in our bathroom and my skin turned black...i f*ckin hate it...UGH!!!...had anyone had that problem before?!?!?!
What's wrong with having black skin? Try it on the rest of your face. I hear chicks dig guys with tanned skin. That's how latinos and brothas get the babes.
 

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Gangster Of Love said:
What's wrong with having black skin? Try it on the rest of your face. I hear chicks dig guys with tanned skin. That's how latinos and brothas get the babes.
dude i'm asian...i'm already dark...i hate it cuz it looks like i got a mustache though i don't.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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