Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I cant believe that she picked up the phone

aix237

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I know this might sound stupid to some people but i just called this chick that i am starting to get into a lot. This last weekened i couldve boned her but i didnt cause of whisky d1ck. i really wanted to though. We were all over each other the whole night but i was like no way i can do anything (in my head, both of them).

she probably took it as me leading her on and/or rejecting her. i was like fvck there is no way were going to talk again. the next day i asked her to hang out but she never called back after i talked to her so i was like fvck.

So now im in LA on business by myself just chillin in my nice hotel room in beverly hills. cant do anything cause the company wouldnt let me get a rental car. So i was like fvck it im going to call her (its been like 2 days). In my head i had it planned that i was going to leave a message trying to just be casual and funny never thought she would answer. thought there could be a slim chance of atleast a call back cause ive never called her on a weekday night. well she answered the phone on the first try. i told her i was in la on business and she was like oh yea im going there this weekened and blah blah blah (already knew that). then she was like what day you get back? i was like thursday night. shes like you should come hang out with me (at some bar) i was like yea ill give you a call when i get in. The whole freakin day i was just down, had no sleep, bored as hell at work and thinking about my fvck up and contemplated all day long if i should call her when i get to the hotel just see what would happen. Swear i have no freakin clue why im all happy about this but sh!t i cant believe she picked up my phone call. Im thinking she answered the phone cause im being hard to get sometimes and ****y and im feeling good cause shes playing right back at me. oh well guess games got to be played i would prefer not too though.

I guess the question is now how do i play it so i dont fvck up this time. Of course i will make sure not too many drinks or anything. but does it look desperate on my part if i call her after i get off the plane to meet up?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Cruise

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quick observation... you had whiskey **** when you wanted to bone.

then... she wants to hang out with you at a bar...

evidence, though minimal, just says she needs a good drinking buddy who can keep it interesting.

as far as you assuming / hoping? that this will turn out to be something bigger might be a bit questionable.

in which case... treat her just like you would a drinking buddy. call her up as soon as you get off the plane, quick convo to set up plans, meet, have fun, then take it from there.

if she asks you to take it further, which you really WILL know after a couple rounds (women drop hints as subtle as friggin bullhorns when intoxicated)... then just hope your shriveled raisin doesn't let you down ;)


'til then...
 

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Cruise said:
quick observation... you had whiskey **** when you wanted to bone.
then... she wants to hang out with you at a bar...

evidence, though minimal, just says she needs a good drinking buddy who can keep it interesting.
as far as you assuming / hoping? that this will turn out to be something bigger might be a bit questionable.

in which case... treat her just like you would a drinking buddy. call her up as soon as you get off the plane, quick convo to set up plans, meet, have fun, then take it from there.

if she asks you to take it further, which you really WILL know after a couple rounds (women drop hints as subtle as friggin bullhorns when intoxicated)... then just hope your shriveled raisin doesn't let you down ;)


'til then...
some of you 'DJs' observe and analyse toooo much

you know most psych students/shrinks dont get laid bcoz they get ahead of themselves and freak out other ppl (big big turn off for women...analysing too much)

our ancestors didnt know psychology/mind game BS...but they f*cked like animals

so my humble opinion for u aix - just meet up with her, have fun and show her how much of a fun guy you are, she will always come back for more...dont worry too much about 'kiss-close', 'F*ck-close' etc...it happens when it happens
 
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