"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i cant believe im back here writing.

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Zaraza

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So college started, i was set, in shape happy, working out, **** (not toomuch),. out going, talkative, friendly, and obvsiouly caught attention girls right away. One chick and i kicked it off right away, second day went out to downtown had a good time she was hanging on me holdin me doing all the cute ****. except...now we dont talk. lol. i think its my part. I see her in class in school, and she'll be like HEY HOW ARE YOU...and ill just say fine and keep doing my thing. All i know is i stopped working out as constantly as i did, and my work and school have got me stressed.... the thing is how can i kick it back up? i think she still likes me, cuz she always says hi, and in class she was like....we dont talk anymore...

yea guys im babblin...welcome back ZaraZa to bein an AFC. right now i feel like this ---> :cheer: (a *****)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You're not much of a talker, that's nothing to be ashamed of. People get it, they have met shy guys before and you're not a freak for being quiet. And the fact that you're in shape (hot, I assume) and quiet can be deadly, a DEADLY combination. If you want to really grab her, just pick up her hand and kiss it, look into her eyes, and don't say anything. This will say it all, it says "yeah I dig you, even if I don't always say hi." and then get honest with her, say "I wanna spend some time with you." if she is giving you IOIs and you are a prize, she'll appreciate your directness. Attractive and strong men don't need to play games or talk themselves up.
 
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Haha thanks buddy, this is why i come to this site, people just boost your mood or understand. Yea my grandmother has been through surgery and that made me quiet down. Im thinkin of doing something active, might go to a waterfall hike or something. Since she active ill call her up take her with me...yes.. i figured ill be honest bout whats been happenin and tell her that id like to spend some time with her. I think she still likes me i mean its only been a week.

we will see what happens
 
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