"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I can't be stopped.

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I have a bet with a friend of mine, and we've decided to round up prom dates. I'm up to 18. I'm not particularly interested in all of em (not interested in anyone at the moment, actually), but it's been crazy.

Girl: *is studying for US history, WWII* Hmm, where's Stalingrad.
Me: *walks up behind* here. *I point at Stalingrad.
Girl: Wow, gj, etc
Me: Damn right, and if you want more, go to prom with me.
Girl: Are you serious? Didn't you ask *enter some random other girl I've already asked*.
Me: Yup, and I'm asking you now.
Girl: Why would you do that?
Me: I'm rounding you up to start a farm, of course.
Girl: Haha, alright, I'll go to prom with you. But what about *other girl*
Me: What, I can't be a mormon and have two?

I've found that being spontaneous has helped my DJing skills. I need fresh meat, but it's been fun messing with the chicks @ my school.

I challenge everyone here to follow my path. Go around your school asking girls to prom. Even if they say no, it gives you a relatively nonbinding opportunity to gauge interest and have a little fun.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ha...you've turned it into a sport. I love that!
 

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but now what are you going to do when you have liek 18 dates waiting for u and 17 of them get fvcked over lol..
 

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Originally posted by toddC
but now what are you going to do when you have liek 18 dates waiting for u and 17 of them get fvcked over lol..
Or he could just not go :p
OR go alone and have the next bet. Every guy can bet on which girl he'll take home. lol. (No interference allowed)
 

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lol wait till the sh*t hits the fan. they'll eventualy realize your playin them and its there grad prom to so they'll be p'od.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'll worry about it when it happens. =)
 
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