"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I can't be stopped.

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I have a bet with a friend of mine, and we've decided to round up prom dates. I'm up to 18. I'm not particularly interested in all of em (not interested in anyone at the moment, actually), but it's been crazy.

Girl: *is studying for US history, WWII* Hmm, where's Stalingrad.
Me: *walks up behind* here. *I point at Stalingrad.
Girl: Wow, gj, etc
Me: Damn right, and if you want more, go to prom with me.
Girl: Are you serious? Didn't you ask *enter some random other girl I've already asked*.
Me: Yup, and I'm asking you now.
Girl: Why would you do that?
Me: I'm rounding you up to start a farm, of course.
Girl: Haha, alright, I'll go to prom with you. But what about *other girl*
Me: What, I can't be a mormon and have two?

I've found that being spontaneous has helped my DJing skills. I need fresh meat, but it's been fun messing with the chicks @ my school.

I challenge everyone here to follow my path. Go around your school asking girls to prom. Even if they say no, it gives you a relatively nonbinding opportunity to gauge interest and have a little fun.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ha...you've turned it into a sport. I love that!
 

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but now what are you going to do when you have liek 18 dates waiting for u and 17 of them get fvcked over lol..
 

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Originally posted by toddC
but now what are you going to do when you have liek 18 dates waiting for u and 17 of them get fvcked over lol..
Or he could just not go :p
OR go alone and have the next bet. Every guy can bet on which girl he'll take home. lol. (No interference allowed)
 

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lol wait till the sh*t hits the fan. they'll eventualy realize your playin them and its there grad prom to so they'll be p'od.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'll worry about it when it happens. =)
 
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