Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I can't be sexual

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cloneofstenyhoyer

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I am not very good at sexual innuendo. I am gonna land myself in the friendzone with this girl I am talking to if I don't get my a** in gear. I am starting to get really frustrated and may just NEXT the girl. Like earlier on the phone - when we were talking about the weather - she said she had a swimsuit on last week. I wanted to say "damn I wanted to see that" - but some kind of fear was blocking me from saying it. She seems like she is eager to hang out with me, but it is hard to gauge her interest level based on that. I am not gonna be cool if she is wanting to hang out with a "platonic friend". I feel I am better at communicating my sexuality with someone I know. I just wanna slap her a** when I see her. I might as well, got nothin else to lose. I'm tired of feeling like her and I have this vague thing going on. I need to be direct without letting her know I am needy. HOW DO I DO THAT?

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Forty0ztoFreedom

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I was in your position a couple of weeks ago and the fear beat me. Hitting myself for being such a douche.

Dude, do it. Start being a man who likes woman. Guys like you & me have been SO conditioned to think sex is bad and its fVcked us up. Time to re-program through actions.

Don't be me 2 weeks from now, telling some other schmuck to grow some balls. Do it.
 
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DeePee

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I'm new to DJing, but you gotta stop thinking so much. Somewhere on this site it was mentioned to think twice and only twice. Think about what you're going to say, then again to make sure it's not stupid or offensive, and then deliver. Seriously, just practice being horny around your friends (guys and girls). Talk about how you'd totally tap that, or those are nice ones, etc. It'll build up a general sense of sexuality in you, and if you got close girl friends who are just friends it makes things even easier for you. Gain the confidence to just be sexual and it'll be easy for you when you have your one liner for your girl.

Start simple. Next time just say, "Yummy!" or "Tasty!" See where it goes, and as you do it more you'll start to get some nice one liners.
 
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