"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I can't be sexual

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cloneofstenyhoyer

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I am not very good at sexual innuendo. I am gonna land myself in the friendzone with this girl I am talking to if I don't get my a** in gear. I am starting to get really frustrated and may just NEXT the girl. Like earlier on the phone - when we were talking about the weather - she said she had a swimsuit on last week. I wanted to say "damn I wanted to see that" - but some kind of fear was blocking me from saying it. She seems like she is eager to hang out with me, but it is hard to gauge her interest level based on that. I am not gonna be cool if she is wanting to hang out with a "platonic friend". I feel I am better at communicating my sexuality with someone I know. I just wanna slap her a** when I see her. I might as well, got nothin else to lose. I'm tired of feeling like her and I have this vague thing going on. I need to be direct without letting her know I am needy. HOW DO I DO THAT?

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Forty0ztoFreedom

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I was in your position a couple of weeks ago and the fear beat me. Hitting myself for being such a douche.

Dude, do it. Start being a man who likes woman. Guys like you & me have been SO conditioned to think sex is bad and its fVcked us up. Time to re-program through actions.

Don't be me 2 weeks from now, telling some other schmuck to grow some balls. Do it.
 
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DeePee

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I'm new to DJing, but you gotta stop thinking so much. Somewhere on this site it was mentioned to think twice and only twice. Think about what you're going to say, then again to make sure it's not stupid or offensive, and then deliver. Seriously, just practice being horny around your friends (guys and girls). Talk about how you'd totally tap that, or those are nice ones, etc. It'll build up a general sense of sexuality in you, and if you got close girl friends who are just friends it makes things even easier for you. Gain the confidence to just be sexual and it'll be easy for you when you have your one liner for your girl.

Start simple. Next time just say, "Yummy!" or "Tasty!" See where it goes, and as you do it more you'll start to get some nice one liners.
 
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