I can understand bigneil now...

[_sideways_]

Its simple... I have an extra 40 to spend
...lol.
But in his case he has an extra 400.

But seriously... I keep getting texts from the hardest, wettest. Lately...
Who knew?

#stillsingle

 

[bigneil]

I had a date last night with a hot girl who I just met Saturday.

Yes, I paid for dinner. It cost $160, or 40 minutes worth of work. Her portion cost $80, or 20 minutes worth of work. The date itself took 6 hours, so time was the main expense. Funny how you guys think the money is even a factor. If time is money, the time you spend is the main investment. If you value your time at 0 that's sad.

 

[_sideways_]

Yes.
$155...ugly steak...yet she paid.
Lol...teach me yodda

 

[bigneil]

Yes.
$155...ugly steak...yet she paid.
Lol...teach me yodda

You think she respects you after she had to pay for your dinner like your mommy? Did she cut up your steak into bite sized pieces for you?

Meanwhile, my date said it was one of the best dates she's been on. I still saved the other $1840 I earned yesterday, so which one of us is better off?

"A successful seducer pays for the date" - Louis/Copeland 2000

 

[Julian]

@bigneil not everyone has dough like that brother. And even alot that do are on the player mindset and wont pay for anything. However, i've noticed a trend in the hiphop community in regards to "tipping" the ladies who you fukk with. That means shes giving up that ass to you and wants to look good so you give her 100 bucks here an there to go get pretty, nails/hair etc whatever. Just a kind gesture/investment on your part. This is called "trickin". But has been turned to "tippin" as of late.

Im not against paying for someone I love and care about, or even a good friend or heck id pay for a stranger. However, one thing I wont do is use it as a means to get some ass. And thats because I use my funds toward other things. I come from a player background. put it this way my last 2 x gf's..I made as much in 2 weeks as they did combined in a month...yet when it came time for presents, one dropped 1500 on a watch, the other about 1200 on jewlery, an xbox, various other things etc.

Heres the thing, once you get a chick to invest into you, she will begin to invest more and more. All of my girlfriends and women who I date typically will always want to pickup the tab at bars, restaurants...bring me food randomly etc etc. I never have to reciprocate anything but being myself, and laying down some good pipe. Now when the time came I would drop some money on a girl. Also, im not saying im against paying for a drink or lunch or whatever. However I wouldnt be that guy taking first dates on 200 dollar dinners. Even if I was banking 2k a day, but thats just me and to each their own. If its a drop in the bucket for you then more power to you. Do what you gotta do.

 

[bigneil]

Unless you say "I will pay your for sex" and she is obligated to do XYZ, you are not paying for sex in her eyes.

In every other form of dating, the man is compensating the woman in some way. Especially if she is much younger than him and especially if she is extremely attractive.

Regarding "tipping", as a photographer, I cover all their expenses but I get complete control of the hair, makeup, Uber, venue and poses. It's totally worth the few hundred it might cost, especially if you are a control freak. The alternative is her getting angry that you don't like her nails.

There are simply no single men who earn what I do and are afraid to spend some on women, though many love to pretend.

 

[_sideways_]

You think she respects you after she had to pay for your dinner like your mommy? Did she cut up your steak into bite sized pieces for you?

Fvck yea...she chewed it up swallowed, then threw it up in my mouth like a baby bird.


Bro...have you ever seen your mom feed your dad a scoop of ice cream she had? Its a sweet gesture for her to do.
Getdafuqodaherre

 

[_sideways_]

Bugniel...you aren't dating Instagram models bro...and you should be.
But from the "women" you post....from the towns you rack them up in, with you making $2000 a day.

Move to LA BRO. STOP PLAYING WITH THESE GIRLS HEARTS. Step your game up. Or stay a local Tx, Al, az, Ga, , or wherever southern town you decide to talk about next.

No offense, I know ur probably saving all that cash by living with a room mate, who's a dead beat.

But I know you're job won't let you leave your hot spots. But stay cool bro.
Keep feeding these girls. They gotta eat right?

 

[_sideways_]

I had a date last night with a hot girl who I just met Saturday

Yes, I paid for dinner. It cost $160, or 40 minutes worth of work. Her portion cost $80, or 20 minutes worth of work.


Bigneils words.


So she hadn't ate for couple days...she saw your wallet, and you got laid. Bravo....bravo...

Lololololololololol....I can't keep up lololololol

 

[bigneil]

So she hadn't ate for couple days...she saw your wallet, and you got laid. Bravo....bravo...

Lololololololololol....I can't keep up lololololol

Did you just laugh out loud like a 16 year old girl?

If you think spending less than the average amount on a date is her "seeing you wallet" that is proof positive you have no money in your wallet. Seriously dude, sell weed or something to make something. You can't talk your way out of being a bum.

Also, by your logic, your date last night was a disgusting woman who you only used for dinner.

Meanwhile, my date told me she has no doubt that the 21 year old is in love with me because she said I am "tall, handsome, smart, strong, with nice eyes and a good career who is obviously a great lover". She came back to my hotel and sucked my tongue out of my head. She said "I just want you to know that I would LOVE to have sex with you right now." I currently have at my disposal every girl I know and some people want to pretend it must be about the money. It's about being the perfect guy. Face it: you're not (and that's assuming you are a guy to begin with).

Readers can stay tuned for more tips on how to actually score like I do.

 

[bigneil]

"Topping the list with the most expensive date night was New York City, where a night out will cost you around $173.88. That includes two movie tickets, two drinks, two cappuccinos, and dinner for two (and just wait until you factor in cabs). Indianapolis was the cheapest, totaling just around $82.62. "

http://magazine.foxnews.com/love/cost-liking-someone-how-expensive-average-date

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Unless you say "I will pay your for sex" and she is obligated to do XYZ, you are not paying for sex in her eyes.

bigniel, I don't think you understand; women will THINK they are attracted to you because you have money, AKA resources. And thus comes the self-fulfilling prophecy where they start to do things that make you think they like you, sex included. nismo-4 and marmel75 always say that the only real IOI is sex, and not even that is surefire way to let you know if she is actually interested in you. They don't actually like you for you bro, just the money you have. Most of the guys here aren't "cheap" or "broke" as you put it, they just don't want to be liked for something superficial, rather they want to be liked for themselves because that means that something about WHO THEY ARE is attractive/desireable, and that always feels good to know. Money doesn't determine who you are. Remember that.

 

[Serenity]

@ImTheDoubleGreatest! Your post can be simplified, watch.

@bigneil How many of the 30 strippers you've dated the last few years stuck around?

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

@ImTheDoubleGreatest! Your post can be simplified, watch.

@bigneil How many of the 30 strippers you've dated the last few years stuck around?

I actually laughed out loud. Well played Grewd, well played indeed.

 

[Roober]

Why do You guys care so much? If money is his thing or not, it has no effect to you. I have dropped $200 on a date and I have dropped $20 on a date. Sometimes you just go with the flow. I am very comfortable, but not wealthy by any means. Often times, I just pull out my credit card until a woman offers to chip in. Haven't been on one date where she hasn't offered to chip in...

Bigneil has the resouces, so he is probably much more forthright with it.

 

[logicallefty]

Park closed, go home.