"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"I can see it in your eyes"

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This is a really retarded question but can some one elaborate on the phrase "I can see it in your eyes". I mean when you hold eye contact with a girl you cant see the emotions she's feeling.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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yungahdubz said:
This is a really retarded question but can some one elaborate on the phrase "I can see it in your eyes". I mean when you hold eye contact with a girl you cant see the emotions she's feeling.
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Right, it is a figure of speech. You can use the phrase, and say anything about a girl, as a cold read, or just to get her intrigued in something you're about to say. Women somehow love that type of woo woo talk, and $hit, so instead of trying to find a literal meaning to the phrase, just use it to your advantage.
 
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Thats how you turn on the charm.
 
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"I let it all out. All my desire I've had for her, all the frustrations she's caused me (I am on this website because of her), all the work that SHE put me through, I said not a word of it but she knew every bit, because she saw it in my eyes.

She melted.

...and melted...

...and melted.

She returned the eye contact."

So by merely looking into her eyes he displayed and embraced his DESIRE for her, and she could see it?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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